Comments | togodbetheglory: 28 days untill my b-day!

togodbetheglory

28 days untill my b-day!

Jul 01, 2006 01:26

Yeah, so you know how some couples set boundaries in their relationship so they don't go "too far" physically? Well Michael and I kinda did that, but the biggest thing is we are being led by the Holy Spirit ( Read more... )

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jpluers July 1 2006, 06:58:37 UTC

Awesome. It's so true. We've got a jealous, oh so loving God. Him before anything. He is amazing. How've you been by the way? And how's Michael??

togodbetheglory July 1 2006, 18:53:11 UTC

I'm been well, Michael's been well. We both just got back from a three week vacation. He was in LA for three weeks and I was in NH for one week then joined him in LA for two. It was fun, excellent, a blessed time. An emotional time. :o) Yeah. Well love ya my brotha!

broadwaysonata July 1 2006, 13:56:47 UTC

SO...okay. Being led by the holy spirit is an excellent thing, and i don't doubt for one millisecond that you are. But lets break it down for the accountibility partner. These aren't really "amendments" so much as "Guidances by the holy spirit to the contrary of your rules" occasionally? I'm not worried about it or anything- I'll go with whatever you say, and i'll do it joyfully, because I know the both of you too well to think you'd take this lightly, or ignore what the Lord's tellng you- everyone makes mistakes, but hey- if you're listening, chances are, He's going to talk to you. I guess I just wanted to make sure that I actually AM taking care of the task you asked me to do as a friend. And I can't do that if things aren't laid out on the table. Not necessarily that you're hiding this- so much as that you hadn't necessarily defined in specific terms outwardly. And it's always important to reassess where you are in terms of this kind of situation- it gives you fresh perspective, and a clearer understanding of what your motivations ( ... )

togodbetheglory July 1 2006, 18:54:17 UTC

dahling... because you are my accountability person in this I will speak in more detail to you about the boundaries... mmmk? I'll call you later...

samwisegamgee2 July 1 2006, 13:57:43 UTC

So what boundries have you two set? I agree whole heartedly with you, my Abba is the only one who satifies me. Until you come to this conclusion you will be miserable.

togodbetheglory July 1 2006, 18:59:34 UTC

Well basically we try to avoid things that turn either of us on... so yeah. He's allowed to hold me but we can't cuddle... which means like i can't sit in his lap, we both can be laying down when he is holding me. No kissing on the lips... so yeah. That's pretty much it for rules... but sometimes we don't do those things because we feel like the Lord is saying not even to touch each other... like before I touch him, give him a hug etc... I pray about it... I think this works so much better because we rarely get caught up in the moment and cross lines...
Sometimes when I've wanted to just hold his hand I feel like the Holy Spirit tells me no and so yeah... love ya!

samwisegamgee2 July 1 2006, 21:43:15 UTC

That is an amazing method. I love how you and Michael rely upon God so much. I love you..