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Feb 28, 2005 14:01

why are people so selfish...i can't stand it ( Read more... )

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why not just tel me in person lilo85 February 28 2005, 20:46:23 UTC

zellie,
i don't understand why you have to post this online...i know for a fact who you are talking to...instead of passing your anger on to those around you via internet, why don't you come to me, talk to me, and explain to me the feelings you have. i will explain my feelings to you too!

Re: why not just tel me in person tragicdreams22 February 28 2005, 22:11:31 UTC

you know...i would then you end up yelling at me...and say that everything is my fault...and you did. you say that you don't know me...gosh how long do i have to hold my heart out..i am so nice to you...girl i love you...a litte bit ago you said you thought i could not trust you and i said i did trust you...i don't trust you with my heart any more...i have said that i was sorry and offered my friendship...that is all i can do...but you have crushed my heart way to many times...i am done...and i am posting this becasue i am tired of hearing you scream at me...i don't have to deal with that...you need to learn to stop holding stuff in and dealing with it right away so you don't get so mad...and maybe i need to work on kissing ass more...

Re: why not just tel me in person lilo85 March 1 2005, 00:48:49 UTC

what can i say? feelings are mutual right now...but we still have to live with each other...i've held things in my whole life...you can tell me that's what i need to change, but it is impossible to do! I don't know, maybe it's genetic or something...part of my family is the same way...no, you don't need to work on kissing butt...that's what will cause more conflicts. that is all i can say

Holding things in is something... anonymous March 1 2005, 03:22:23 UTC

You guys are in a great and Godly place. Please don't let Satan get in an tear you guys down. You are both wonderful, smart, beautiful young ladies. Here we have 2 awesome girls trashing each other and taking out their stresses on each other. Holding something in is a Nelson family thing. You can't say you can't overcome it, then you r taking God out of it. Zellie used to do it too all the time and it only created bitterness and anger with in her and it translated to others. You end up expressing your anger on someone in a way that is unhealthy to a friendship and is not biblical. It is something that if you don't get it under control right now, you will have problems with your husband and throughout your life. Ask any Nelson that is married...I am not bashing you, just trying to help you. Lets all think about this...at the end of the day does it really matter? Does any of this petty stuff really matter? Is this the way God has intended it to be between you two? Is this a way of expressing Gods love for each other? The more you are ( ... )

Re: Holding things in is something... lilo85 March 1 2005, 03:30:39 UTC

whoever wrote this, i'd like to know...not because i'm mad at what you said...but because what you wrote was very knowledgeable....i don't mean the stuff i said to zellie.......i just have a lot of anger as you said, that i need to take care of....and i am thinking and praying about getting it taken care of...please show yourself

Re: Holding things in is something... anonymous March 1 2005, 04:26:02 UTC

I don't have an ID to this thing, but I thought it was obvious who it was. It is me Flee. Love you!

Re: Holding things in is something... saubaines March 1 2005, 04:01:05 UTC

I have to agree. The idea that holding things in is something that you cannot change is a defeated attitude, and a lie from Satan. It is definately something that will take some time and prayer to work through and deal with, as it is ingrained from years of habit and surroundings, but it is something that must be dealt with, and there are PLENTY of resources available to help you. I'm praying for everyone involved, for both Lorry and Zellie, and use this time for healing, and strengthening! Once we all can move past this, there's nothing that can't be handled!:) I love you all!