That the two women that are in my heart, both have partners?

*sigh*

So it's rained so much that the NYC subways are flooded, which means no way to get to work for Dari. Oh well. I was actually looking forward to working today. What I'll do is keep trying. I'll try to head out there again in a couple of hours. Gotta be in the city tonight anyway. Got the Poly NYC group tonight! EXCITING!!!

Anyone know of any queer or queer friendly BDSM clubs or groups in Toronto?

Dari

Anyone up for some rounds of HOT TUB madness Saturday-Tuesday?! Let me know! I'll be in town.

Nothing really new to report. Up to chapter 7 of the ethical slut.  My eyes are burning and I'm very sleepy, but as the hours and days past I'm doing this more and more for MYSELF than you. And it feels wonderful.

Day two of my poly exploration:

So I'm onto Chapter 4 of the "ethical slut" language. And a thought just occurred to me while reading- What if I didn't seek a partnership? Would I be happy if I just had multiple relationships that weren't "couple-centrist". Dossie and Catherine are right- the individual is whole already, I am a fundamental sexual ( Read more... )

ok, so this is day one of my new life experiment. For the next 12 months I will actively try different forms of poly living- in hopes of finding my true poly self. Funny that I've spent two years of my life in a poly relationship and yet I'm still searching for the right "poly" for me. I'm sharing this journey with all of you, because I find that ( Read more... )

So I got real bored...

1. ONE OF YOUR SCARS, HOW DID YOU GET IT??
Dog fight...you should see the other dog.

2. WHAT IS ON THE WALLS IN YOUR ROOM?
posters of Mia Ham, Buffy, Angel and a goddess

3. DO YOU SNORE, GRIND YOUR TEETH, OR TALK IN YOUR SLEEP?
Snore when i'm really tired

4. WHAT TYPE OF MUSIC DO YOU LISTEN TO?
ALL TYPES

5. DO YOU KNOW WHAT ( Read more... )

sucks but it's what has to happen huh? I'm still angry and sad it didn't work out, but I'm letting go now too. Wish I could've held on a little longer babygurl, wish I could've stayed.

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