Comments | trinity_sama: a small update of how things are

trinity_sama

a small update of how things are

Sep 08, 2008 10:29

i figuratively lost my mother years ago and now i've figuratively lost my father. as a result of a recently bad fight, i'm 80% sure myself and my sister are relocating back to massachusetts. i'm surprised to feel not entirely happy about that fact. i don't know if we'll ever be like we were, i don't even know when he'll speak to me next. i just ( Read more... )

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becky_kitty September 8 2008, 16:25:48 UTC

*major hugs*

As happy as I am to hear that you may be relocating back to MA, it sucks that the reason for the relocation is family dramz. Hopefully the possibility of or the actual relocation will give your father some perspective and help him realize that you and your sister are worth more than whatever crap you're arguing over.

trinity_sama September 14 2008, 01:28:30 UTC

thanks so much for your constant support. you are awesome, hun.
i wanna ask that you please not say anything about this. i don't know how often you speak to stef or crissy, but if word got to them, they would tell everyone they know and it could quickly get back to certain parties who aren't supposed to know yet. i write it here because i'm confident they haven't read my journal, or anyone else's for that matter, in over a year. i just know how gossip-y they are, and it will just make things worse. anyway, thanks for being a positive voice in response to all my complaints.
luvs!

becky_kitty September 14 2008, 16:31:26 UTC

*hugs* I almost never speak to them, since we're all so busy, but I won't say anything. I figured this was a private decision that you need to wrestle with.

jenanoelle September 9 2008, 05:43:38 UTC

*hugs* sometimes distance can do wonders for a relationship.. if not, then you always have your freedom? :)

trinity_sama September 14 2008, 01:36:13 UTC

thanks hun, you're always so optimistic. i ask that you please don't mention this to anyone. i don't know how often you speak to stef or crissy, but if they found out it would be a short amount of time before the news ran through our family and there are certain people that we need to keep this from for the time being. i know they don't read this journal so we're safe for now. thanks for trying to cheer me up. luvs!

jenanoelle September 14 2008, 02:45:23 UTC

oh, don't you worry.. I know how well the grapevine works ;) ..my family's the same or worse with that kind of stuff (both sides!)

Anyhow, your secret's safe with me. Let me know if you need anything :)