Just when I thought things were great....

[trixie_the_lips]

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[fusesburning]

*lots and lots of hugs*

been there hon...i know how hard it is physically, mentally, and emotionally...try to take care of yourself -- i know it's hard, but it'll keep you out of the funk you feel yourself falling into...also, if you go through with the breakup, let me know...i've got a book for you that helped me get over my last ex, who i, at one point, thought was my soulmate...might sound cheesy, but it got my life back on track...until then, get some hot tea, some chocolate, and some fresh air...*hugshugshugs*

[trixie_the_lips]

Well we didnt break up. Like she came and said sorry and I guess we are gonna try to work it out.

But if she ever pulls anything like this again, I WILL NOT stay with her.

[intothemorning]

I wandered over here from lesbian. I hope I'm not intruding, I just can relate to a lot of what you've written. I've had similar things happen and sometimes (for me) knowing someone else listened and commiserates helps so yeah... I know you don't know me but *hug* too.

[trixie_the_lips]

i dont mind at all.

thanks for the kind words. I am sorry that you had to go through this and yes it does help that someone understands.

[pgrdnckgrl06]

same here, i kinda wandered from the same place. After reading that i kinda feel like i've been going through the same thing with my now ex gf. i dont know if you've read my post on Lesbian but its on there about what she did/said on new years. It's just now actually hitting me and I too, am broken hearted and she doesnt really care because she's around her friends. We met at college so it'll definitely be weird when we go back and have to see each other. Try to surround yourself with friends or other girls :) to keep your mind off of it. Your best bet is to break up with her, if she's done this before to you then chances are she's not going to stop doing it and the longer you hold onto her, the more its gonna hurt.