Comments | twilight132: i need some advice, but the topic is, of course, emo

twilight132

i need some advice, but the topic is, of course, emo

Nov 26, 2006 18:25

do you know how bad it is to hear the guy you love talk about how hot other girls are? how he picks up other girls? how he's hugged girls in his boxers and them in silk dresses? its bad. you feel like you want to throw up, and your head hurts, and you're dizzy, and you're about to cry without really knowing the reason why. i know his opinion means ( Read more... )

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mrfeline November 27 2006, 02:33:45 UTC

Lucy you told me a few days ago, that someone may just not have liked me and I should move on. Take your own advice Lucy, Sven will still like you as a friend, but you gotta learn that things have, are, and will change. It's time to move on, but thats a choice you have to make, no matter how much poking or prodding, I can't force you to.

lil_missetoile November 27 2006, 02:45:32 UTC

listen to Ryan, Lucy. In fact, listen to ALL your friends who have said " its time to move forward," because this is going to sound harsh, but all you're doing is moving backward and staying in the past and hurting yourself. Relationships are both a blessing and a curse and you're just going to have to come to terms with the pain and move on. seriously, even if it involves vodoo, or burning your "sven box" just do it and dont look back.

twilight132 November 27 2006, 05:30:42 UTC

*gasp* not my sven box

(actually, its a bag... i didnt have a box >.<)

idle_wild November 27 2006, 13:20:48 UTC

oh no! it has to be a box! jk.. i wouldn't suggest burning it though. i mean, there are happy things to focus on too. you can think about all the great times you had with him. i know that sounds lame, but it's really true, i'm sure there are great memories if you try to think about them alone and not being sad that they're gone. you're going to have a lot of relationships in your life... and i know it sounds crazy, but i'm pretty positive you're going to get over sven, whether you want to or not. yeah, i know you won't in the sense that supposedly no one totally gets over their first love or whatever. but let's be serious here. lucy, you're going to be okay. i have total faith in you.

lil_missetoile November 27 2006, 23:05:46 UTC

yeah, of course there are happy things. But do they really have to be connected to random trinkets? what about a picture? or a card. keep that. keep one. but dont just have his shit laying around. because all thats going to happen is shes going to think about the happy things and then get sad because they arent together anymore. Ive been through this too many times to count and I know how it feels.

angrybonsai November 28 2006, 01:47:15 UTC

everyone moves on at their own pace. yes, its time to move on, but don't force it. i dont think its possible for a person to say to themselves

"this is it"

and go on as if everything were normal. find an outlet, find another boy, stop putting energy into this other world you're barely in contact with. it's a seive. just find something.