well way back when when we "went out" ...fuck we were so young...but he "cheated" on me. I tried to get Cooper to beat him up for me..LOL but he went with this other girl ... she wrote him notes saying stuff like "I want to screw you" and "i want to have your babies" she was....crrazyyyy anyways I wasnt willing to give it up.
I'd say to just ask him about it. be straight with him and hopefully he will with you...you're right...he hasnt "yet" cheated. dont screw him for something he hasnt even done yet. However if he DOES in future...you need to leave him and leave him alone. you dont need someone like that hun
heh he told me about that. i gues he never said or did anything untill he broke up with you.. well hell i dont even think he did after then either because he realized she was crazy. thanks for the advise though!
Ian cheated on me once about 3 years ago. He kissed this girl he used to really like, he didn't have sex with her but I still considered it to be cheating. It sucked I hated him for it. I didn't trust him but eventully I chose to forgive him. It still makes me sad and I have a hard time talking about it but Ian has proven himself to me. So if he is cheating and if he is a really good guy, you might be able to forgive him. It's hard because you really have to put your heart on the line and you could end up really hurt. So it's a tough sititaion. Pearsonlly I would be pissed, but if you can work it out then it could be great. I would try not worry about it (I know that's hard) but try not to untill you hear his side of the story. I'm really sorry this is happening to you, it really sucks
i think you told me about that once. yeah you and ian have made it sooo far dude, when are you guys getting married? i want to come! im really happy that you guys have made it this far. thanks for the advise
everyone asks me if we are getting married and we really have no plans. I don't want to be married I'm to young. Anyway I hope my advise kinda helped I just read what I wrote and I rambled wayy to much
I don't want to be negative and I honestly don't know anything about this relationship but the fact that he is looking for other girls obviously shows he doesn't care much about you... at least not enough to keep only you on his mind. It is one thing to notice other girls but another to actively be seeking another girl. No he hasn't cheated but doesn't this make it clear that he wants to
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yeah i agree with you but i guess im just a pussy in this situation. like usually i dont put up with shit from guys really at all, but its weird because this ones different. but i dont know, were working it out now. he admitted to signing up and such but doesnt get why theres things saying he "winked" at other peoples profiles. soo i dont know. its just all weird for me
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without knowing much at allpunkrockjessicaFebruary 23 2007, 03:27:38 UTC
you seem to end up with the wrong dudes mydear, maybe this says something about the kind of person you attract? or are attracted to? we're not kids anymore, if you want serious find a serious guy, but that starts with being serious about yourself, i sayeffthe guy, pay attention to yourself fornow, trylater, you dont always need someone else to be complete. and sorry myspacebarhatesme
Re: without knowing much at alltwilightsfuryMarch 21 2007, 00:50:13 UTC
shit its been a long time since ive been on here. yeah i know what you mean. it turned out to be a faulsy thing anyways. but yeah you are right i do tend to go for guys that arnt the greatest.. and ive passed up some of the nicest... then again they were really damn boring. one day ill figure it out though. so who do you date these days? how are you?
Re: without knowing much at allpunkrockjessicaMarch 24 2007, 02:33:11 UTC
ehh im okay, i just got laid off and im still hanging on to that one guy who's been pulling m strings for so long now.....i know what you mean about the nice ones, but i guess try a medium? not too nice, but not a bastard either right? hmm well luvs dear
Re: without knowing much at allpunkrockjessicaMarch 24 2007, 02:34:59 UTC
ehh im okay, i just got laid off and im still hanging on to that one guy who's been pulling m strings for so long now.....i know what you mean about the nice ones, but i guess try a medium? not too nice, but not a bastard either right? hmm well luvs dear
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but he went with this other girl ... she wrote him notes saying stuff like "I want to screw you" and "i want to have your babies"
she was....crrazyyyy
anyways I wasnt willing to give it up.
I'd say to just ask him about it. be straight with him and hopefully he will with you...you're right...he hasnt "yet" cheated. dont screw him for something he hasnt even done yet. However if he DOES in future...you need to leave him and leave him alone. you dont need someone like that hun
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yeah i know what you mean. it turned out to be a faulsy thing anyways. but yeah you are right i do tend to go for guys that arnt the greatest.. and ive passed up some of the nicest... then again they were really damn boring. one day ill figure it out though. so who do you date these days?
how are you?
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