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[two_feet_away]

mens magazines aka visual and mental material is surrounded around objectifying women. is there an equivalent opposite to this cultural catalyst of behavior? american womens magazines do not objectify men, at least not in a visual way. this must be a sort of a superiority thing? tits are as private and precious as the helmet of a penis is, in my

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[two_feet_away]

are you talkin magazines? it just seems so abnormal and not even desirable to have "playgirls" as opposed to playboys on the coffee table. ive never even looked in a playgirl or read any of the articles but i swear most of the playboy articles are junk even though ive never read anything more than an interview and some party jokes.

i get pretty upset at fake tits, and things in general that make me feel less beautiful because of current standards. i think me being jealous is an obvious sign of insecurity which isnt entirely at my fault. i think women are treated by society in a way that covets insecurity. i just want to feel validated as a woman. like being given the privilege to let my eyes wander over male celebrities all naked.

i feel awkward looking at playboys openly. probably because of this complex ive given myself by being jealous that guys get to.

[two_feet_away]

where do you find such porn marketed to girls without going to a sexshop

[charlies]

My mind clutters everytime I try to talk about this. Patriarchy is horrible and I'm not sure what to do about something so deeply ingrained in our culture.

The current standard of beauty isn't what most men find ideal in my experience. The issues females have to deal with in regards to self image is sad; I hope you feel good about yourself more often than not.

If you find something visually stimulating look until your heart's content! Don't feel guilty about admiring beauty; fuck them it's our lives.

Oh and <3!!!!!!!!

[two_feet_away]

well, hey there! thank you for your thoughts, sorry it took me so long to reply! i am feeling better about this subject, now a days. its important to let others live their own life, and after awhile, viewing nakedness just makes you numb to its "effects". the human form pleases the eye, and pleases the heart and i am lucky enough to have one myself. i should rather spend my energy bettering my human form than second guessing it. im such an amateur haha

[wreckingboy]

you do have the right to view nakedness yourself and enjoy it. is it a question of where to find it? or if he will accept it? or something else?

[two_feet_away]

well, at this point, it is none of those.

i think my main concern is that having ample amounts of "adult magazines" or "mens magazines" around makes me feel less valuable as a female person. having to see women constantly in the role of a sex object every time i open the bathroom door bothers me. it makes me feel brainwashed. i am not an object and neither are these women. what i really want is for men to experience what that feels like--to be in the category of an object, to have women constantly gawking over the skin of hundreds of surgery-perfect men, or the skin of men that don't possess whatever insecurities that are common among men. which i think are few, but i don't really know.

[wreckingboy]

thanks for explaining. maybe i got confused because you are saying many things here

[two_feet_away]

more than anything, this post and conversation is an extension of my internal processing of my then heavy thoughts and feelings on the subject matter.

a more honest statement would have been "i dont want to care about what he looks at." my mistake.

it is not my intention to make them feel degraded, but perhaps i do want them to feel that way, to equip them with the knowledge and understanding of what it feels like--to constantly be reminded of the idealized man in which they are not.