He loves so deeply and completely and gives so much of himself. I put the notion in my own head that in order to make him happy, in order to be the person I arbitrarily decided he 'deserved' that I had to love the same way he loves, I had to reciprocate everything he did for me in a similar fashion; and, I am that not that kind of person. And until that very moment, I had no idea that the person I am, the way I love, is Enough.... *sigh*
I am currently reading "The Five Love Languages", by Gary Chapman. You might consider picking up a copy, taking the little test on the website, etc. You AND your husband. It's really interesting stuff.
I am glad you are working through things as you are. Really, really glad.
I know this is an old post and I have been away for a long time, but reading this helps me with something I am dealing with. I just wanted to let you know that.
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I am currently reading "The Five Love Languages", by Gary Chapman. You might consider picking up a copy, taking the little test on the website, etc. You AND your husband. It's really interesting stuff.
I am glad you are working through things as you are. Really, really glad.
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