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Jul 22, 2007 09:58

Well, with what's been going on recently, I guess it's time that I made my post, because everyone involved can see it. The other morning I was asked about my feelings for someone that was a mutual friend of Kim's and mine. I had met him through Kim. I told her that we were friends, that was it. She asked me about me and him being "friends with ( Read more... )

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amethystwings July 22 2007, 14:39:31 UTC

You have nothing to feel responsible about hon. Mike and I were already having issues, because we couldn't find time to be with each other, what with his camera and my kids and all... And then there's the fact that I've started trying to fix things with John, which he wasn't happy about. So you don't really have any blame in this.

Yes, part of the reason that I didn't want him with you is because he and I just broke up on the understanding that we'd get back together when we had the time for each other. You know, all through high school I heard the 'guys code' where when your best friend breaks up with someone, you don't go after the person they broke up with. Well, my personal feelings on this are kind of the reverse of that. I was and am, incredibly hurt that not 2 weeks after we broke up, he starts 'hunting for happyness' with you, someone who he knows is my best female friend. Someone who he knows has their own problems.

Of course, he's 'hunting for happyness', so it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, right?

unforgivinghell July 22 2007, 14:49:09 UTC

I know, I just felt that if this hadn't happened, you and him may have been able to work out whatever differences you had. Now, because of this, which I feel I should have been able to deal with on my own, you won't be friends again anytime soon.

And yes, I agree that you don't date your ex-girlfriend's best friend.

amethystwings July 22 2007, 14:59:53 UTC

Honey, he didn't listen to me, and he didn't listen to you until you told him in a bitchy way that he creeped you out. He just plain didn't listen and didn't respect your boundries.

unforgivinghell July 22 2007, 15:03:03 UTC

well, I doubt he is going to reply to this post, on here. He told me that he DID see that I told him I thought he was kidding the first time. The thing is, he just ignored it, and chose to go on about his own shit first. So whatever. He could have at least acknowledged what I said so that I didn't have to repeat it two more times, than get bitchy on top of it.