I remember you. Livejournal is always a place you can come to for support.
I can't believe it's been 2 years since you've been here, and I can't believe how much your life has changed. I'm sorry for everything going on with you.
Okay, is there any chance you can go bankrupt to get rid of your money problems? If not, you might have to grow a thick skin and work out what you can afford to pay off, and where you can work as well as doing school.
And please keep off the drugs, I think your husband and yourself are going to have to work out who you are, without drugs, together and apart- and by that I mean make yourselves have time for people outside your relationship. Hit up old friends, just tell them you hit a rough patch.
Bankruptcy is something I am only willing to consider if I can't work this out for myself. I know it looks bad on your credit history & even if I'm having a hard time making payments I have been so my credit is still in alright standing.
As of now we have been two weeks sober & I feel better than I ever have. He's having a harder time with it but he's still being strong. I am so proud of him for this. & my friends are all willing to come back into my life even though I was complete shit to them. Eric & I are working things out together & our relationship is growing stronger every day.
Also, I will be studying Medical Assisting & once I have that degree getting a certificate in gerontology so I can work with dementia/Alzheimer/Parkinson's patients.
I am always around for you to talk to. I know we haven't been super close for the last couple of years, but I want you to know you can ALWAYS call me up, or text or FB or whatever, no matter what time it is or how long it's been since we talked, and I will listen to whatever you have to say. You can rant to me, or cry, or have me tell you it'll be okay five hundred times in a row, whatever you need. <3 I am proud of you for quitting, and I would never judge you for using drugs, though you know I disapprove. I would never try to make you feel bad about it. But I am so, so happy to hear that you guys are quitting. <3 And I am here for you, whatever you need.
When I get my money from my car accident, depending on how much it is, I might be able to help you out a little. I'll let you know.
Erin, you are an unreal person. Thank you so much for being so understanding with this. After I posted this I thought about how you might see this & think less of me because I know how you feel about alcohol/drug use. I really appreciate that you aren't letting this change your opinion of me.
& thank you for your offer but I can't take money from you. This is something I need to work out for myself, even if it takes me twenty years. I do appreciate it & I will accept your offer for the shoulder. & I really hope I get to see you when you come into town. Make sure to let me know every time you do. I would really love to have you back in my life. <3
Cat, you are an incredibly strong woman and I'm so proud of you for taking the steps you need to take to get sober and to make yourself happy..
I'm sure that you and Eric will get through it together and that sober, the two of you will be even closer.
I want to be around for you - even if I haven't been for years. I'm so sorry about that but please don't think you don't have friends. Because you always will. <3
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I remember you. Livejournal is always a place you can come to for support.
I can't believe it's been 2 years since you've been here, and I can't believe how much your life has changed. I'm sorry for everything going on with you.
Okay, is there any chance you can go bankrupt to get rid of your money problems? If not, you might have to grow a thick skin and work out what you can afford to pay off, and where you can work as well as doing school.
And please keep off the drugs, I think your husband and yourself are going to have to work out who you are, without drugs, together and apart- and by that I mean make yourselves have time for people outside your relationship. Hit up old friends, just tell them you hit a rough patch.
What will you be doing in school?
*hugs*
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As of now we have been two weeks sober & I feel better than I ever have. He's having a harder time with it but he's still being strong. I am so proud of him for this. & my friends are all willing to come back into my life even though I was complete shit to them. Eric & I are working things out together & our relationship is growing stronger every day.
Also, I will be studying Medical Assisting & once I have that degree getting a certificate in gerontology so I can work with dementia/Alzheimer/Parkinson's patients.
Thank you for being a support. :)
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When I get my money from my car accident, depending on how much it is, I might be able to help you out a little. I'll let you know.
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& thank you for your offer but I can't take money from you. This is something I need to work out for myself, even if it takes me twenty years. I do appreciate it & I will accept your offer for the shoulder. & I really hope I get to see you when you come into town. Make sure to let me know every time you do. I would really love to have you back in my life. <3
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I'm sure that you and Eric will get through it together and that sober, the two of you will be even closer.
I want to be around for you - even if I haven't been for years. I'm so sorry about that but please don't think you don't have friends. Because you always will. <3
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