My Wanna-Be-Inner-Carrie-Bradshaw-Monologue

[upthebuttboy]

In a small city like Seattle, unfortunately when it comes to relationships and dating (or as close as you get to dating) you have to make sure to cross your t's and dot your i's. And if you are unable to do so, well then. . . you throw yourself in front of a bus. Or the monorail, if you feel like being local and unique

Comments

[flopart]

Ahh, Christian, how the heck have you been? You do not update nearly as much as you used to and I have no idea what's going on in your life any more. :(

Also, you could always move to Massachusetts, there's lot of cute gay men here! I know because I've cluelessly hit on all of them! :P

[upthebuttboy]

Eh. I know I haven't been updating very much, it's been a very difficult couple of months.

But I think I might start blogging more to feel back to my old self again.

I can't hide in the dark forever!

[dreamskinner]

I've posted countless bulletins on the same thoughts. It's one reason why I'm so happy to be leaving this city come next month.

I tell everyone, the most important concepts in relationships, be it friends, lovers or even coworkers is communication and trust. Without either, any type of relationship is doomed.

Speaking of Seattle being casual and green...I've always wonder who made that statistic of Seattle being a happy place, just so I can sue them for false advertisement.

[upthebuttboy]

Let's sue that son of a bitch together!

Sometimes even with communication and trust, things don't always work out as one would hope. It sucks.

Where are you moving to?

[dreamskinner]

I'll be moving to Berkeley next month to finish off my BS in bioengineering. Plus, I wanted out of the city for a while now. There's really not much hope here. Working at my starbucks makes me realize that more and more.

I guess relationships also need the right chemistry of working together as well. Maybe something else. Btw, you got great icons on here. me = jealous.

[doublethink82]

Pre-concieved notions, unrealistic expectations, and judgment on others is the reason. Everyone has or does these, and depending on the severity, the relationship changes.