I feel you, and yet a heterosexual Christian man would be fine with me. I guess I'm sort of vanilla that way. It's just that years of artists, intellectuals, and other fringe-y type people haev created nothing but instability and drama, with a touching dash of arrogance and narcissism. OK Cupid was The Worst! And Match left me feeling like it was a bunch of dudes looking to get laid. I didn't get any matches from Chemistry.com (maybe that would change in Philly?) Plentyoffish should be renamed plentyofstalkers.
I think there is a middle ground between "fringe-y" people and the God Squad, tho, don't you? It may or may not be present in the online world in sufficient quantity or in the places you're looking.
I am surprised you didn't get any matches from Chemistry.com, because I seem to get new matches every few days. And I do skip over the people who are immediately discussing sex in their profiles, seem to be hyper-religious or otherwise too conservative, etc. I haven't met anyone nor have I actually subscribed to the site because of the way life is right now, but it has been nice to know I'll have a few options.
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In the alternative, I've tried out Chemistry.com, and I've found much the same thing you have. It's been interesting to see who is out there.
Nope, you're not alone -- and best of luck. :-)
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OK Cupid was The Worst! And Match left me feeling like it was a bunch of dudes looking to get laid. I didn't get any matches from Chemistry.com (maybe that would change in Philly?) Plentyoffish should be renamed plentyofstalkers.
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I am surprised you didn't get any matches from Chemistry.com, because I seem to get new matches every few days. And I do skip over the people who are immediately discussing sex in their profiles, seem to be hyper-religious or otherwise too conservative, etc. I haven't met anyone nor have I actually subscribed to the site because of the way life is right now, but it has been nice to know I'll have a few options.
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