I guess I sort of started on a process of learning something today... just about people and about perspective and about listening and about differences
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Everyone has that right. Everyone. And I know exactly what you're talking about, because I get it too.
You can always complain to me Lauren. You can always bitch and moan and whine - I may not let you wallow or feel sorry for yourself for long, or gravely underestimage yourself, but I will always be here for you to complain to. And (hopefully) I'll be able to tell the difference between the times that you need constructive advice and the times that you just need someone to listen as you rant.
oh I'm so sorry you feel that way!!! Don't worry, I sometimes feel like that too!!! Don't worry babe, you can always vent to me! I realize life isn't perfect, and although you're smart, beautiful, talented, and many other things, I realize that your life is gonna suck sometimes. Everyone's does!!!! Gimme a call anytime babe! WAY EXCITED ABOUT TOMORROW!!!!
Complaining is something that almost anybody can do, and everybody does (to some extent). It's difficult to deal with those who indirectly contradict what you feel unhappy about ("What do you mean you're not happy, of course you're happy, look what you have.." can be used as an example), and it's also a discreet way of they themselves complaining/feeling envy.
Regardless of the situation or perceived lifestyle as viewed by the outside, everybody hurts. Everybody cries. Sometimes. It helps, and those who listen should be lending a kind ear and a supportive shoulder, not a reprimanding!
Hope it helps, and hey, I'm totally back in town darling. Miss ya'!
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You can always complain to me Lauren. You can always bitch and moan and whine - I may not let you wallow or feel sorry for yourself for long, or gravely underestimage yourself, but I will always be here for you to complain to. And (hopefully) I'll be able to tell the difference between the times that you need constructive advice and the times that you just need someone to listen as you rant.
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Regardless of the situation or perceived lifestyle as viewed by the outside, everybody hurts. Everybody cries. Sometimes. It helps, and those who listen should be lending a kind ear and a supportive shoulder, not a reprimanding!
Hope it helps, and hey, I'm totally back in town darling. Miss ya'!
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