oh Katie dear, I understand all that you are feeling. When I broke up with my first boyfriend it was for very similar reasons. He did everything right, was a great guy, took care of me, was sweet, and all that jazz. Yet I wasn't happy, and grew numb to him as well. It hurt so bad to say goodybye to our romantical relationship, and it sucked for a while. I wondered continuously if I made a bad mistake, but eventually the pain decreased, and I was able to reach out to him as a friend...I know right now it seems so impossible that you and Dan will ever reach a point when you can talk again and be friends, but it happens, and if you guys really care about each other then that time will come
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oh caitlin, i'm so glad you understand the aspect of being "numb" to it. it's so awkward! i felt like i knew that i was being a terrible girlfriend, but couldn't force myself to change it! ugh. wow. that whole first section is like.. exactly what i am going through right now. it's so similar, it's almost creepy
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i don't have any experience to share with you and i don't have any advice to give you. but what i can tell you is that no matter what you decide it won't change all the wonderful memories you had with dan before. it may not be the same but you'll always have the memories. and no matter what, you'll always have me. <3
well if that didn't just make me cry, freakinjerk. just kidding. you're amazing, thank you for your thoughts and words. you will always have me too, of course. ♥
i agree, i do know everything i need to know. even if i don't KNOW that i know it. makes perfect sense. i know that we can't be happy ALL of the time. i guess i would rather that be the case. *sigh* you're right, i am definitely going to miss him. there is no doubt about that. i already do sometimes. i hope that i find something that can make me happy, but doesn't make everybody else unhappy. i hate that. and i know we can't stop the pain, but we all want to do what we can to ease it that is amazing. thank you so much for always being here. you are such an incredible friend. <3 i love you oo, of course. ♥
Is it just me or does noone really seem upset that we broke up? maybe it just seems that way from my perspective. This comment is going to create drama but I'm posting it anyways
i guess i don't understand why they should have to be upset. i think they're just trying to be supportive and stuff, and being all down about things is probably just going to make the situation worse in their eyes. i am upset about it, if that makes you feel any better.. but i think things are going to be better now. i also don't think that your comment will create drama. you are just voicing your opinion, which is fine by me. and although you ignored my message about being here if you need to talk, i still am.
it just seems like people are saying "aw its ok move on" more than they are saying "aw that stinks that you guys broke up, you guys were a cute couple"
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i felt like i knew that i was being a terrible girlfriend, but couldn't force myself to change it! ugh.
wow. that whole first section is like.. exactly what i am going through right now. it's so similar, it's almost creepy ( ... )
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just kidding. you're amazing, thank you for your thoughts and words.
you will always have me too, of course. ♥
LOVE.
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i know that we can't be happy ALL of the time. i guess i would rather that be the case. *sigh*
you're right, i am definitely going to miss him. there is no doubt about that. i already do sometimes.
i hope that i find something that can make me happy, but doesn't make everybody else unhappy. i hate that.
and i know we can't stop the pain, but we all want to do what we can to ease it
that is amazing. thank you so much for always being here. you are such an incredible friend. <3
i love you oo, of course. ♥
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But you're such a bright girl
You'll do whats best in the end
Things have a way to working out how they should in the end...
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i hope that you're right.
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