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[vincero7]

So of course, Paul and I didn't work out. I just talked to him on the phone and he said he wasn't ready to be in a relationship and that we should get to know each other better "before we try". I agree and was meaning to bring the subject up to him previously.  I had the usual choking sense that this exact thing would happen. At least I know that I

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[spearmintcookie]

i'm sorry thomas... you put it so well and i can't possibly compare, so i'll just say that i understand how you feel and that life is fantastic, even when we're lonely.

[deathbycelery]

That's beautiful, in the way only poetic despair can be. It's good that you got to date a guy who wasn't an asshole, though, and that things didn't go horribly wrong. And your capacity for emotion is what will someday make you a great lover.

[fishnu]

im sorry it didn't work out <3<3<3 i love you.

i truly believe though, that a relationship cannot make you whole. you have to be whole yourself before you can have a sucessfull relationship. then again this isn't marriage or anything.

<3<3<3<3<3

Thomas, sorry about your situation...

[anonymous]

Thomas, it's pretty sad that you feel MORE lonely in a relationship than not in one. If you we're dating the right kind of guy, you wouldn't feel that way. One thing you must NEVER do is bring the baggage of past relationships into your new one. Remember this, LET THE PAST GO! I'm sure you've been hurt, but it is a destructive thing to do (not letting go), so please heed my warning.
Let the past be the past. Yes, you've been hurt but there are other fish in the sea, ones who could treat you better or worse. The ones who have treat you wrong are flawed. You are flawless. Keep that in your mind always...

-Richard

[hractorguy]

:-( Sorry.

I miss you.

My classes next term are done at three on Thursdays and four every other day. We should hang out again.

D'accord?