what i discovered

[whatdoineed]

is that I need a bit of help - and since most everyone seems to be very knowledgable about this sort of thing, do tell me - what are the best ways to give a handjob and make it extra interesting

Comments

[jdredd5150]

well, you say you added your mouth and you mention this is all about the handjob.

how about more info? what exactly where you doing? how were you going it? can critique much better with actual information to go on, nez pah?

[undefined_lust]

gloves.. silk is very nice, suede if the mood strikes you.. some like leather or latex

[whatdoineed]

that's one I've never heard before
with the silk/suede, I'm assuming that lubrication isn't necessary?
hmmm
I must go shopping

[undefined_lust]

you assume correctly! I envy the boy who gets your attentions with them ;)

[whatdoineed]

but latex requires it, yes?
so is the sensation with the fabric better than with skin?

[luscioustongue]

I've only had one handjob that brought me to climax. Ever.

The girl basically varied everything; grip strength, playing with the balls, stroking it, gliding her hand over it, and rough jerking. But, the constant change and not knowing what she was going to do next really got me excited.

Just one guy's opinion...

[whatdoineed]

I did bring him to climax - many times
don't get me wrong
and I did most of what you mentioned - varying everything
but I still felt as if I just wasn't as good at that specific thing as I am at other things!
but thank you

[luscioustongue]

Am I ever going to have the pleasure of your company online again?

*sniffle*

[whatdoineed]

soon, I hope
soon

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[whatdoineed]

ooo - that looks fabulous!
I'm going to have to get myself that one
thank you

[leohernandez]

i would say soem smooth gloves work, but i myself dont get alot of hand jobs the only time i get them is cause the women are getting tired from giving me a blowjob for a long time

[whatdoineed]

see - I love giving blowjobs, and I am damn good at them, but I met this guy over the summer who really didn't like them (first guy like that I've ever met), and I am just not spicy enough with them for my tastes. He was happy ... I was dissatisfied with my performance.

[leohernandez]

see i can kinda relate to the guy when women give me blowjobs only twice i been able to cum from it and if not the woman tries to give me a bj but it takes so long for me to come that it turns into a handy.....i wish i could find a women who could take it like a champ you know lol

[whatdoineed]

ah, but, see - I can go like a champ with my blowjobs - he didn't even want em to try!