Comments | whipslave20: Angry Words (by my standards)

whipslave20

Angry Words (by my standards)

Nov 15, 2009 23:18

The opinions expressed in this post are not necessarily fair and may not necessarily reflect reality. They are reflective of how I felt at the time of writing and may not reflect my mindset in a calmer time.

Now that I have that out of the way...

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Mitz thinks ... anonymous November 16 2009, 04:05:05 UTC

Hold on, brave soldier. Many more mermaids in the kinky sea just longing for a spear-fishing Spartan.

Re: Mitz thinks ... whipslave20 November 16 2009, 10:29:02 UTC

I've not been fishing for some time, and I'm not looking to fish now.

anonymous November 16 2009, 06:53:41 UTC

I think you're perfectly okay to be angry for a while. I would be. I'm sorry it turned out this way.

M

whipslave20 November 16 2009, 10:31:51 UTC

The thing is I really don't like bieng angry, and the anger is pretty much gone. Loss, regret, second guessing, concern at the thought that I've hurt someone I care about, that's left in the wake.

anonymous November 16 2009, 11:04:25 UTC

It makes sense. I know you're flat out but if you want to talk things over at all, just let me know.

anonymous November 16 2009, 12:36:30 UTC

You are a unique person - Upset, angry, confused, and you put this blog post together with amazing logic and order. It's honest.

And I'm honestly upset that it didn't work out, but (to borrow from Mitz) don't be afraid of Jaws just because the water is wet.

Take care,

Jaki.

whipslave20 November 16 2009, 19:06:29 UTC

Well she's not Jaws by any means!

thevampress November 28 2009, 07:27:41 UTC

I know how it feels to be angry about relationships. It takes time, and it is shit...

I think you are right when you say that you have the right to feel valued and worthwhile in a relationship monogamous or otherwise.
I have recently become involved with a couple and we are now a triple... and you do sometimes just have to be gentle with each other, voice your concerns, and expect them to be addressed.

I send you gentle hugs, and you know that if you and your radio voice need to talk, I'm on the other end of the line.

x

ps: you are a beautiful, intelligent person and you deserve to feel valued.

whipslave20 November 28 2009, 12:30:55 UTC

I saw her at the munch and at Uber last night and we were fine.

I'm in a pretty good place with all of this.

As for your ps, I don't know about being beautiful and intelligent but I have learned that I am certainly valued.