Thank you. ♥ I SHOULD REASSURE THAT ALL IS WELL - just... sort of noticing the tracks of how things have changed since then and noting certain influences. I hide in my house and do nothing far too often >_>;;;
when my siblings and i were young, mum used to stay in the same room as us until we all fell asleep. we didn't think it was weird because it was nice to have the attention and cuddles. then when my 14 year old relative and i (11) had been caught 'touching' she kind of freaked and acted weird after that. i had later, in my thirties learned, that she had been molested by an older step sibling... something she had only just remembered (that explained a whole lot).
stuff sticks with you for a long long time, even if you don't remember it and it doesn't come to mind daily. the way we react to stuff can be the result of what we have experienced... good or bad.
i know it's not so bad and that you have survived and you are a wonderful and intelligent and remarkable young woman... just remember that sometimes you need to look at stuff and realize where some of your feels and reactions come from (and if you need to you have to say to that person from your past that they can have it back). *hugs you* gin
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It's not terrible. Just food for thought.
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stuff sticks with you for a long long time, even if you don't remember it and it doesn't come to mind daily. the way we react to stuff can be the result of what we have experienced... good or bad.
i know it's not so bad and that you have survived and you are a wonderful and intelligent and remarkable young woman... just remember that sometimes you need to look at stuff and realize where some of your feels and reactions come from (and if you need to you have to say to that person from your past that they can have it back). *hugs you*
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