Comments | wikid_doll: i need this explained to me

wikid_doll

i need this explained to me

Mar 19, 2004 03:57

Ok.. i ust spent almost 2 hours with my next door neighbor. Dont get me wrong. I think he is hot and all. I think he has his eye on me too. None the less he is taken. He has a woman going on two years now. She just gave birth to the most beautiful baby boy. He is too adoreable. Now i am sitting here posting minding my own business and i hear them ( Read more... )

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deadpoolsidious March 19 2004, 05:11:00 UTC

I'll attempt to explain it the best I can pet.

1.Sounds like he was raised right by parents who treated him correctly and showed him what to do and not to do.

2.She is very obviously taking him for granted.

3.He has put two years into this and doesn't want it to feel for nothing, especially now that he has a child with her. He loves his son and wants the best life for said son.

4.People love challenges. Just remember when you first meet someone you don't know everything so you go off of what you do know. He did that but then she got comfortable and now her true side is coming out. My money is if she is claiming he's sleeping around, then she is. That's why she's paranoid, cause she's doing the same thing.

5.He seems like a great guy hun, maybe you should try using your bait

wikid_doll March 19 2004, 11:46:38 UTC

1. Actually he wasnt.. family didnt want him and put him in foster care now years later they wanna be close to him now that he is taking care of himself - sound familiar???

2. Yes she is he provides anything she wants.. doesnt get anything for himself.. dont even give him affection...

3. yeah i said that.

4. actually he's not sleeping around... he goes to work and comes home.. she dont let him have friends and scared most of the ones that he still had away. So he has a few friends left. As far as when he met her... things were great until 6 months then she got pregnant and all hell broke loose. IONO.

5. What bait... number 1 he is 20... number two he looks identicle to faye's alan and that would just be weird... number 3 he is taken... you know me... taken men are off limits to me... it would be easy.. but i am not that low... unless i misunderstood you

deadpoolsidious March 20 2004, 07:03:12 UTC

1.Sounds much like my sis's now ex fiance
2.He needs to get out
3.okthen
4.I know hes not I'm saying she is
5.I was talking when he became single

wikid_doll March 20 2004, 14:57:37 UTC

i agree with 2

4.she cant be cheating on him.. she never leaves the house...that door squeeks every time she leaves.

5. nope... cant happen.. he is dedicated to making it work so.. i am not gonna even look at that possibility.. he is a friend.. that's it.

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manukai1980 March 19 2004, 06:00:24 UTC

Why is it that, to a woman, a great guy = a gullible, whipped guy?

nerdyjeff March 19 2004, 10:13:19 UTC

and a gullible whipped guy isn't what women want...

Its a viscious cycle.

wikid_doll March 19 2004, 11:40:22 UTC

gullible whipped no... but like you are yes. we dont want someone who has no backbone and does what we command... we want confidence.. just not arrogance..

none the less... no...we dont want that...but he isnt being that... he wants out.. i can see it.. but the son is there and he dont wanna chance her taking him away from him.

wikid_doll March 19 2004, 11:37:25 UTC

i told him he's whipped. He's not gullible... but like clint said he is trying to do what is good for his son. If the son wasnt there he would have been gone a year ago.

i said a great guy because he is trying to provide for what is his. In that sence he is a great guy. He is still young yet and got alot to learn.. it just sucks that another good one is gonna go bad. if this makes any sence.