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bestmoirail in witchesreign

o9. ♌ network post

Oct 11, 2011 12:25

[Nepeta really wishes there was a better filtering system. She's been wanting to ask this for a while but...well, might as well just have at it.]

:33 < id like to ask everyone a question
:33 < how much should you furgive someone?
:33 < if theyve done something really pawful
:33 < what is the line betw33n being difficult
:33 < and being sensible ( Read more... )

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chosenwielder October 11 2011, 16:36:46 UTC

[...Yeah, this is totally relevant to his interests.]

Think it depends on how they handle things. If they're trying to make up for it, it might be worth giving them a chance, but only if they mean it.

There's a difference between lip service and going the extra mile.

[text] bestmoirail October 11 2011, 16:38:22 UTC

:33 < how can you tell the diffurence?

[text] chosenwielder October 11 2011, 16:40:10 UTC

Just their actions, I guess. And it's not like it has to be a quick decision. Probably better to watch them and make sure they aren't pulling any fast ones.

[text] bestmoirail October 11 2011, 16:44:15 UTC

:33 < thats true
:33 < i have b33n thinking about it fur a while now
:33 < but i just cant figure it out
:33 < but to be purrfectly honest i havent really
:33 < well talk with the purrson much since what happened

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ragesnake October 11 2011, 16:44:05 UTC

DEPENDS ON THE PERSON.
AND YOURSELF, I GUESS. IF THIS "PAWFUL" SHIT SOMEONE DID HURT YOU, AND YOU CHOOSE TO FORGIVE THEM, YOU'RE ASKING TO BE HURT AGAIN.
IF IT HURT SOMEONE ELSE AND THEY FORGIVE THE PERSON, IT'S PROBABLY IN YOUR BEST INTERESTS TO FORGIVE THEM, TOO.
WHAT THE HELL IS THIS ABOUT, NEPETA?

bestmoirail October 11 2011, 16:47:15 UTC

:33 < im purrty sure you know who im talking about

also i'm sorry he's being a douche ragesnake October 11 2011, 18:04:55 UTC

THERE ARE A GOOD NUMBER OF US THAT HAVE DONE THINGS CLASSIFIABLE AS "PAWFUL".
SPIDERBITCH, GAMZEE, ERIDAN, NEVERMIND THE AMOUNT OF TIMES I FUCKED UP. SHOULD I JUST START PULLING STRAWS OR ARE YOU GONNA STOP BEING CAGEY ABOUT IT?

he's karkat, it's okay xD bestmoirail October 11 2011, 18:22:15 UTC

:33 < oh j33z dont start on that karkat
:33 < this self depreciating thing of yours
:33 < nothing youve done is anywhere near comparable to what those thr33 did
:33 < in fact i still stand by the fact youve done nothing wrong
:33 < however much you dont believe that
:33 < im being vague beclaws this stupid network doesnt allow filtering
:33 < so if you want me to be direct were going have to speak in purrson

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haha_steelguard October 11 2011, 18:55:38 UTC

Do they really regret what they've done? Are they trying to make it better? Did they apologize, at least?

bestmoirail October 11 2011, 18:59:26 UTC

:33 < its a bit of a complicated situation
:33 < the purrson is here
:33 < but they come furrom a time befur they did what they did

haha_steelguard October 12 2011, 16:50:08 UTC

If they haven't done it yet, I don't think you should blame them for it. It's a hard question to answer, though. Do they know what's going to happen?

bestmoirail October 13 2011, 20:36:14 UTC

:33 < im not entirely sure
:33 < i dont think they do
:33 < but they arent exactly

[How does she phrase this?]

:33 < they arent really themselves right now
:33 < its kind of hard to explain

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vestigiaflammae October 12 2011, 01:32:55 UTC

pawful?

[...this guy must really like cats.]

sure there are things that you can't forgive. i dunno about "should." it depends what they did.

bestmoirail October 12 2011, 01:38:10 UTC

:33 < so
:33 < do you think its okay not to?
:33 < would it be petty if you cant bring yourself to?

vestigiaflammae October 12 2011, 01:41:14 UTC

i think it's okay if you can't. like, if somebody hurt my friends? i probably wouldn't forgive them.

maybe it's better to forgive or whatever, but if you can't who cares. they're the one who did something wrong in the first place, right?

bestmoirail October 12 2011, 01:54:13 UTC

:33 < hmm
:33 < i hope so
:33 < but it does bring another question to mind
:33 < do you think everyone should be held to the same standard?
:33 < like
:33 < if someone else did something somewhat similar
:33 < even if you felt more lenient towards them
:33 < how do you judge who to make amends with and who not to?
:33 < if that makes any sense :??

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overclocking October 12 2011, 05:09:05 UTC

To me there are things that are absolutely unforgivable.

But I digress. If you feel like you want to forgive someone then you should. It isn't that complicated.

bestmoirail October 13 2011, 20:37:59 UTC

:33 < if i may ask
:33 < what would you say those things are?

overclocking October 13 2011, 21:50:55 UTC

Intentionally spreading an incurable disease.

bestmoirail October 13 2011, 22:13:14 UTC

[That is worrisomely specific]

:33 < did
:33 < did someone actually do that?

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