i never was able to do the single thing right up until now. something clicked in my system and all of a sudden i wanted boys again like whoa and i wanted several of them at the same time (though not simultaneously- i haven't gotten that bad) and i didn't want any of them to be my boyfriend. it's really weird.
i personally don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be monogamous. i always was that way. i'm sure you'll find someone who functions the same way. maybe you're just not looking in the right places. i don't know where the right places are, considering i always had that problem, but i've realized that GSAs aren't one of them.
Amen to the GSA thing. Especially now since I'm an officer, it would be a gross abuse of my position, and wildly inappropriate, to date a member of my organization.
ours isn't really the type of gsa where dating an officer would cause a problem. however, i've managed to piss off half the e-board by calling the president a slut when i was drunk. i mean, i guess they hated me in the first place, but that hasn't helped any.
Jess, I love you but don't become a player... then you'll just turn into everything you've hated. Maybe it's a Milwaukee lesbian thing? I feel like going camping with some lesbians (Pat McCurdy) and you should too, I mean- orgy! Anyway, I love you and remember that monogamy is the way to go. Just put your lips together and blow (You best know where this is from).
Danny, I love you like 40 different ways right now.
And you can come camping with me any time.
So how does Friday night sound for a little "Jess and Danny Do Chicago" action? I decided not to judge, so I don't have to be home early, but I do have to be home because my parents and I are going out for my b-day sometime on Saturday... sound like a plan?
"I know I'm going to get through this, but it's just really hard knowing that I'm chin deep in a community that frowns upon monogamy. If I had known that lesbians were like this, I would have stayed closeted."
Oh honey, trust me, it's not just the lesbian/gay community. Straights have a hard time practicing monogamy as well.
Honestly, I think part of it is age. I mean, I just turned 24 (oh god, 24!) and I know PLENTY of people, gay and straight, that just have a hard time being in a one-on-one relationship and would rather just make out with lots of people they meet in bars.
Preachin to the choirdrrtylilsecretsJanuary 12 2006, 02:07:25 UTC
Not everyone is a player...I used to be...but now I want what you want. It's upsetting that the girls I meet are into it for a minute but then don't want a serious relationship...so yeah, I totally understand. I'm doomed for singleness forever...but I'm ok with that. That's why masturbation is so great. :)
Re: Preachin to the choirwittymoronJanuary 12 2006, 03:32:41 UTC
Hahahaha Lynnie, you're great :)
I'm really sorry things with Shoobie didn't work out. Keep your chin up, the right woman for you will come along, and she'll be every bit as into the idea of a serious relationship as you are. You deserve nothing but total and complete happiness, as that's what you've tried your hardest to bring to others.
I'm really glad we reconnected this fall, and I hope that now because Alisa won't be bringing me around, you and I and Jackie and whoever else doesn't hate me (which I think is no one) should make it a point to get together sometime... especially since this bitch turns 21 next week!
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i personally don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to be monogamous. i always was that way. i'm sure you'll find someone who functions the same way. maybe you're just not looking in the right places. i don't know where the right places are, considering i always had that problem, but i've realized that GSAs aren't one of them.
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Are you going to Sioux Falls next month?
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and yes, i am. we're going for sure this year.
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And you can come camping with me any time.
So how does Friday night sound for a little "Jess and Danny Do Chicago" action? I decided not to judge, so I don't have to be home early, but I do have to be home because my parents and I are going out for my b-day sometime on Saturday... sound like a plan?
Love you like a fat kid loves cake!
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Oh honey, trust me, it's not just the lesbian/gay community. Straights have a hard time practicing monogamy as well.
Honestly, I think part of it is age. I mean, I just turned 24 (oh god, 24!) and I know PLENTY of people, gay and straight, that just have a hard time being in a one-on-one relationship and would rather just make out with lots of people they meet in bars.
Keep your chin up dear!
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And yeah, you need to come visit Chicago sometime so I can meet up with you and we can eat, drink, and be merry!
xo
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Not all are...
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I'm sorry I'm the worst friend ever.
xo
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I'm really sorry things with Shoobie didn't work out. Keep your chin up, the right woman for you will come along, and she'll be every bit as into the idea of a serious relationship as you are. You deserve nothing but total and complete happiness, as that's what you've tried your hardest to bring to others.
I'm really glad we reconnected this fall, and I hope that now because Alisa won't be bringing me around, you and I and Jackie and whoever else doesn't hate me (which I think is no one) should make it a point to get together sometime... especially since this bitch turns 21 next week!
Much love to you!
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