Am I weird for wanting them to have a better life, instead of myself?
no its not weird its just selfless. selflessness is a good quality to have but not to the extent that your hurt yourself- which it seems like you would do if you dont accept the promotion.
and if buying a house/saving money are goals you have for yourself why wouldnt you want the promotion? i know you deserve it and youre looking for reasons that you dont deserve it or arent qualified for it.
just because someone is married or has kids doesnt mean theyre better qualified or more deserving of something than you.
True but these other people actually are more qualified. College degrees, management experience, familiarity with procedures and software... I'm not just looking for excuses.. there are actual reasons.
so? theres nothing wrong if you get a job just because the hiring people like you. if you think that doenst happen everywhere all the time youre kidding yourself!
even if the other people are more qualified if youre able to learn the skills you need for the job (or already have them) it really doesnt matter.
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no its not weird its just selfless. selflessness is a good quality to have but not to the extent that your hurt yourself- which it seems like you would do if you dont accept the promotion.
and if buying a house/saving money are goals you have for yourself why wouldnt you want the promotion? i know you deserve it and youre looking for reasons that you dont deserve it or arent qualified for it.
just because someone is married or has kids doesnt mean theyre better qualified or more deserving of something than you.
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you are weird, but not for that reason. you just care about other people.
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Like I would get it just because they like me.
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even if the other people are more qualified if youre able to learn the skills you need for the job (or already have them) it really doesnt matter.
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