think back, way back. c'mon. you dont think this situation is similar to any other youve been in. she deserves to know how you feel. and you have to tell her. basically what im saying is dont do to her what you did to me.
You know what to do. I don't know why you sit there and act like you don't. You tell her how you feel. It's as simple as that. You can't apologize for the way you feel. And you're better off doing that than going out with another person that you really don't want to. It's going to hurt her more if you go out with her than if you just tell her how you feel. You'd have to be an idiot to make the same mistake again. Therefore, get off the "woe is me" trip and do what you have to do.
i know what i have to do. and i'm not acting like i don't. it's just that i never waned anyone to hurt me. so why am i going to do it to some one else. i'll never ap[ologize for how i feel. and you know that. and you're right i do have to do this. thanks for the advice.
do what again?
anonymous
January 30 2006, 05:25:16 UTC
this girl annoys me. you know this. but, really. i think part of her is having a temporary manic meltdown because shes grieving over boyfriend loss and whatnot. either way, she's being easy and what if you're just on rebound? and she just doesnt really know whats going on herself yet she knows that any random somewhat sexual relationship with another guy can make her feel better. it wont. and you werent all that into her to begin with. so just tell her whats up. you've never had an issue admitting your feelings before. why now? because part of you may secretly want some ass too? but you told me yourself you want serious and stable. not some bullshit. so let it go. and a quick comment for cam: i'm an idiot indeed because i never seem to learn from my mistakes. natalia.
Re: do what again?wouldyouliketonJanuary 30 2006, 13:58:44 UTC
you're quick aren't you. you're the only one that wrote it down: "be ause part of you might secretly want some ass too" and you're right. but i know what i have to do i don't know why i'm finding it harder to show my TRUE feelings. and what's this about you being an idiot?
Re: do what again?
anonymous
January 31 2006, 14:52:33 UTC
okay ive thought about this a long time and didnt know when to say it. i want you. thats why i find her annoying. please take me in a manly fashion. natalia.
Jumpin on that ol bandwagonucf_niggazJanuary 30 2006, 06:27:33 UTC
Yeah thats right. I'm commenting...its rare so listen up. What? Why am I? Read the subject title, jeez. Anyhow I figured I'll throw in my two cents and either piss you off or help...either way it'll be how it usually is so yea
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Re: Jumpin on that ol bandwagonwouldyouliketonJanuary 30 2006, 14:00:26 UTC
leave it to ray to spell it out for me. always you. and i thank you for it. you will always be my advisor. and don't worry, i'll be calling you guys soon enough. thanks for the lack of sympathy.
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you know this.
but, really.
i think part of her is having a temporary manic meltdown because shes grieving over boyfriend loss and whatnot.
either way, she's being easy and what if you're just on rebound? and she just doesnt really know whats going on herself yet she knows that any random somewhat sexual relationship with another guy can make her feel better.
it wont.
and you werent all that into her to begin with.
so just tell her whats up. you've never had an issue admitting your feelings before. why now?
because part of you may secretly want some ass too?
but you told me yourself you want serious and stable. not some bullshit.
so let it go.
and a quick comment for cam: i'm an idiot indeed because i never seem to learn from my mistakes.
natalia.
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and you're right. but i know what i have to do i don't know why i'm finding it harder to show my TRUE feelings.
and what's this about you being an idiot?
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i want you.
thats why i find her annoying.
please take me in a manly fashion.
natalia.
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