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[writingthesurf]

One day I will have a guy who loves me for me, not what I could be or what they want me to be. I guess that day is not today. I am only 19 and I don’t have all the answers and I have much to learn in this life. But there is one thing that I do know; at the end of the day I have to love myself, because people will come and go but I will always be me

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[freeatheart85]

"If I am not for myself, who will be for me; if I am only for myself, what am I" -Maimonedes (butchered the spelling!) a Jewish scolar/rabbi/cool guy. Your "at the end of the day I have to love myself" thing reminded me of it.
At the end of the day, not only do you have to love yourself, but you have a lot of friends who will love you too.
"A friend is someone who knows everything about you... and love you anyways!" To me that sums it up, we all do dumb shit, we're all not our "perfect selves", but your friends are the ones who love you BECAUSE you're not your perfect self!
If this guy was loving you for what you "could've been", you're lucky you got out of the relationship now. I dated Andrew for 8 months with him loving what I "could've been", and it basically made me feel that who I was wasn't good enough and killed my self esteem. I'm proud of you for having a good enough head on your shoulders to recognize a problem with a man who needs to change you!

[yamikami]

Fuck you you fucking fuck and all the little fucklings your going to have