is her name on the lease or anything? like, if you two did break up, is there anything you two paid for together that could make splitting up get messy? because that's all that worries me about breaking up with christina, aside from the whole heartbreak thing, is the fact that we both have shit invested into our place.
you should maybe try just talking to her and telling her which things she does that makes you feel uneasy about the relationship or which things just annoy you. i'm not claiming to have a perfect relationship at all or pretending i know everything about them just because i'm in one, but christina and i are up front right away when one of us does something the other doesn't like and it makes shit so easy as long as nobody is bringing it up in a bitchy way. i don't know if that works for everyone, though.
she is on the lease. nothin could really get messy, i pretty much paid for everything here. she brought sheets and comforters and some pillows, lol. seriously. i bought like 800 dollars worth of furniture the day we moved in and it's all going in storage on the 12th. you just take what's yours and can't really argue about it if you own it all.
she was sitting on the couch reading and i asked her what it was and she said "you'll probably get mad" and then she told me. like why would she even be reading that in the first place? fuck who knows. from then on we just argued some more and now i'm almost positive that i'm gonna get that dear john letter like a month after i leave. it sucks.
but then again, i'd rather know if she was messing around because then i could deal with it and move on rather than feel like an idiot for not even noticing, ya know?
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you should maybe try just talking to her and telling her which things she does that makes you feel uneasy about the relationship or which things just annoy you. i'm not claiming to have a perfect relationship at all or pretending i know everything about them just because i'm in one, but christina and i are up front right away when one of us does something the other doesn't like and it makes shit so easy as long as nobody is bringing it up in a bitchy way. i don't know if that works for everyone, though.
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she was sitting on the couch reading and i asked her what it was and she said "you'll probably get mad" and then she told me. like why would she even be reading that in the first place? fuck who knows. from then on we just argued some more and now i'm almost positive that i'm gonna get that dear john letter like a month after i leave. it sucks.
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im sorry, dearrrrr
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