Venting

[xbrightdiamondx]

Okay i am completely and totally stupid, and I know this. anyone that knew Thomas Blaine, knewin the back of their mind, that when he did indeed settle down, that is would be with outragously beautiful girl. Well, last night I was informed that my spectlations were right. Tommy has liked the girl with a lil bit of exotic of a look to them, but when

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I understand

[eprisechick]

I totally understand a lot of your thoughts on all that. No...I wouldn't rush a baby right now for sure...good thinking there. (Alexis-and babys in general- is/are cute and all, but I don't think I could handle a baby and work and all that all the time-not right now...not until finances etc are ok) Have you talked to him about what all he wants to happen before he gets married? Like Chris wants to of course have things final. He wants debts cleared and money saved, and he wants to be in a position to get a home and have a place to settle. I used to want to finish school, but now I just want stable finances and some sort of savings started and steady. If you know what he wants to happen, then maybe you can not talk about marriage with him, but rather just make a path for things to happen that will lead him to feel comfortable getting married right now. It is hard to want to get married when your parents don't get along or things like that. Maybe he is scared and wants things to be perfect. Either way...we should double date

[wyldprincess85]

Well, one you are not stupid for feeling that way about matt saying that. it would upset me alot as well and it would also make me wonder like you feel you would. So you are not alone on your thoughts. Like I told you last night. Be patient with it all. He probably just wants to be financially able to support you two. Trust me. That is what Devin is waiting on. it will come as soon as it can. And another thing. These people who started there life too early will regret it. Having a baby when you are really young is hard. yasi can surely tell you that one. Granted she loves peanut with her everything, but it is still a hard task to take on. Be patient girly.

I wish Charlie would have told me that she was leaving. kinda upsets me. she knows my new number. but i guess i could call her as well, but she is the one leaving. :( i don't want her to go at all. :( ( i know it was a new subject, sorry)

[blueeyedbrit]

I was gonna tell you...but things have been going crazy around here...I've been trying to figure out ways for me to stay here, and what i would do if i went back. Plus mum has been in and out of hospital again...but she's doing really good now. There have been a few other things going on but i was gonna tell you tomorrow tonight at the graduation thing. Anyways, I love ya girl and you know i'll be coming back!

Patience is a virtue

[myexcite]

Yes. I can fully agree to it. Having a baby at a young age takes the rest of your life away sort of. You can't go out, you can't skip work no matter how sick you are (you have to save all of your sick days for when your baby is sick), you can't buy yourself things anymore...baby comes absolutely first...you really don't have much of a life anymore. On top of all of that, you do have to be financially able to start a new life if marriage is the choice. Though you and Matt definitely will be getting married (there is no doubt in my mind about that), patience is a virtue in this case. Have you read the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" ? If not, I'll send you my copy. It's the best book you could ever read based on relationships. Guys have to feel powerful, and if they don't have the money to take care of you fully, they feel weak and tensions are high. It will happen...and only when it's meant to happen.

Love you dear!