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[xchinadesadex]

earlier today i wrote part 2 and when i hit the update journal button i got the dreaded HTTP 500 error.most of the time i hit back and my entry is still there and i just hit update and it posts.sometimes i lose the post.i was enraged.it was longer than part 1 and i so don't feel like writing it again

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[ccatsunfl0wer]

I'm sorry things are not good at home, sweetie. It does take two to argue, so you could do what I do at times and just completely ignore him. OR just agree with everything he says. Like if he says, "you are dumb fucking cunt!", just nod your head and say, "i know, it's terrible." That used to drive my husband fucking insane lol. They know you are patronizing them, but when they call you on it, you just nod and agree again, saying it's terrible.

Hang in there!

[xchinadesadex]

LOL...i started ignoring him when we picked up nate.nate is subjected to our fights way too much.
it drove pete nuts.he followed me around the house for 2 HOURS saying comments that were personal attacks of every insecurity i have.but i didnt break.im proud of myself.its sad though,i told him i was going to ignore him for nates sake.he took things too far saying those cruel things to me in front of nate.

[axcess_denied]

Hope things get better! Seems to be in the air.....think the Holiday's stress everyone out. Glad you all decided no more fighting in front of your little one.

I hate when LJ eats a huge post like that! It happened to me 2 x's this week! I try to remember to save it first, but the times I don't it never works. When I save it, it posts. arggggggg

[xchinadesadex]

it throws me into a rage!i absolutely do not have the attention span to write same thing twice.

[axcess_denied]

same here!!!! arggggggggg
just seems to have happened lately!

[amante_donne]

when i normally do a large post, i normally write the text out in word first (or other text editor) so i can spell check it, then i copy and paste into LJ

if LJ screws up you just copy and repaste.

I little bit of mucking around, but when the dreaded crash happens you will thank yourself for doing it

[anonymous]

social services should tyake that kid of yours away if you guys are just going to emotionally abuse him by fighting and screaming in front of him.
people should have to get a license to have kids
god i feel for any child growing up in such HELL
great job grownups

[xchinadesadex]

and your such a grown up that you have to hide behind "anonymous"?? :)