Anger knows no reason.queuetueFebruary 26 2004, 23:01:37 UTC
Look, pinhead - the lady is obviously mad because she's angry with something she thinks you did and you won't let her be. Couldn't you have a little respect and wait until she gets over her feelings of betrayal over the thing you didn't do?
Stop being so sensitive, and try to be more sensitive.
Re: Anger knows no reason.leoraFebruary 26 2004, 23:06:32 UTC
The lady has a right to say I do not wish to talk to you go away. But telling someone you are angry at them for doing FOO, then not listening to their reply is an assholeish thing to do in any context.
I had this happen to me once... roommate yelled at my for a list of reasons some of them imaginary (like taking her food which I didn't do), some of them insane (her feeling unreasonably uncomfortable for things beyond either of our control), and some of them legitimate, however being the first time I'd heard of them I was willing to adjust, except that after yelling and not letting me speak, she stormed off and left. This makes her an asshole. The above are also assholeish actions. The person in question may not be, we all slip up from time to time and when emotions run high it is even easier to do so. But it's still a crappy thing to do to anyone.
Re: Anger knows no reason.xmuskratFebruary 26 2004, 23:16:05 UTC
And I'm letting her go away, it was just a big shock to me I guess to hear it. I guess I just try so hard to be good to everybody, that this doesn't happen to me often. When it does, it just ends up hurting me more.
Take the necklace and throw it in a river. Alternatively you can also smash the ring, hematite is very brittle. This girl obviously has some issues Aubrey, given that you were in Ohio on New Years and therefore there was no was Nathan could have been in the same room with you, like she said. She wants no further contact with you for whatever arbitrary reason she has chosen, make her wish come true; sever the last tie you have with her.
Aubrey, my friend you don't need this drama in your life. I suggest you wait a week for the pms or what ever her problem is over and deal with her then.
you know, just because someone acts stupidly DOESN'T mean they have PMS. I can justify this with the fact that (to be as emptyheaded) men frequently act stupidly and that cannot be biologically blamed on PMS. :P i bet you expected something like this. Arg, matey.
Look I am a woman, I know the signs flying off the handle not thinking clearly then when someone tries to reason with you or the person you can't seem to get out of the hole you made for youself. PLEASE this is classic.
about what I expected, I didn't expect anything I was hoping to give my friend aubrey a laugh and hope that when I told him I had wicked weird news he would drop me and email.
I would hope that in 2004 mentioning PMS in any situation would not go back to buring bras and hopping on the O channel and also lectures from people that I don't know. THis is probably one of the reasons I find it hard to be friends with other woman.
[17:13] syrinsong: Okay, this is the deal. You call my house, freakin' past midnight on freakin' New Year's Eve, drunk off your ass, scare the crap out of me and piss Nathan off, ruin our New Year's, and then disappear. Gee, am I mad? NOoooo, I'm not mad... [17:14] syrinsong: That was completely inappropriate behavior, and on New Years, for God's sakes....
so if it was new years would'nt it mean that there is a higher probablitity of people calling past midnight? this person makes it sound like its unheard of to call late on new years.. anyway drunk dials are great on new years.. sounds like she needs to chill out a bit.. especially if you would end a friendship over it.. but if they were that anal about shit like that i probably would'nt be friends with them in the first place so no big loss eh? -jack
This is the stuff that happens when people are "done" with you and feel the need to make up a reason. I'm fairly sure she really knows I didn't do it, she just needed a reason to not want to talk to me. If she just said she didn't want to talk to me anymore, it really wouldn't have been that big of a deal.
I guess this is just a pet peeve of mine.
But I do agree, the one night a year it should be okay is new years. The problem is, it never was about the call. It's also about one of the reasons me and this girl never hooked up even though she really wanted too--she has issues.
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Stop being so sensitive, and try to be more sensitive.
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I had this happen to me once... roommate yelled at my for a list of reasons some of them imaginary (like taking her food which I didn't do), some of them insane (her feeling unreasonably uncomfortable for things beyond either of our control), and some of them legitimate, however being the first time I'd heard of them I was willing to adjust, except that after yelling and not letting me speak, she stormed off and left. This makes her an asshole. The above are also assholeish actions. The person in question may not be, we all slip up from time to time and when emotions run high it is even easier to do so. But it's still a crappy thing to do to anyone.
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And when I wear my next necklace, live the next section of my life, there will be more art.
And you know something most everybody else here doesn't know. This isn't the only necklace in my life.
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Hey I have some wicked weird news for you
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:P i bet you expected something like this.
Arg, matey.
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about what I expected, I didn't expect anything I was hoping to give my friend aubrey a laugh and hope that when I told him I had wicked weird news he would drop me and email.
I would hope that in 2004 mentioning PMS in any situation would not go back to buring bras and hopping on the O channel and also lectures from people that I don't know. THis is probably one of the reasons I find it hard to be friends with other woman.
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I just didn't expect it and it bothered me.
What's news?
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[17:14] syrinsong: That was completely inappropriate behavior, and on New Years, for God's sakes....
so if it was new years would'nt it mean that there is a higher probablitity of people calling past midnight? this person makes it sound like its unheard of to call late on new years.. anyway drunk dials are great on new years.. sounds like she needs to chill out a bit.. especially if you would end a friendship over it.. but if they were that anal about shit like that i probably would'nt be friends with them in the first place so no big loss eh? -jack
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I guess this is just a pet peeve of mine.
But I do agree, the one night a year it should be okay is new years. The problem is, it never was about the call. It's also about one of the reasons me and this girl never hooked up even though she really wanted too--she has issues.
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