Best Friends for Never

[xshadowsndustx]

Staying in the theme of rekindling past relationships with people I haven't spoken to in ages, I had lunch with an old friend of mine from high school. Her name is Dana Keelen and I'm pretty sure she was the only person I could ever honestly relate to. We both had violently repulsive upbringings and she understood what it was like to have an

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Joe?

[red_buckeye]

Good luck twirling. If it makes you hapy, it can't be that bad.

Regarding Joe, be careful. Like I said, I think wanting revenge is human, deliberately enjoying revenge lowers a person. It sounds like he treated you badly, and you are a VERY forgiving person to even still talk to him. But leopards don't change their spots, especially in just two years. However broken up he is over the death of his best friend, he'll get over it. Underneath it all he's still the same asshole he was before. Be nice, be friendly, but I wouldn't be his friend. You don't owe him anything: not a shoulder to cry on, not the time of day. But if you let him hang around, he might convince you otherwise.

Re: Joe?

[xshadowsndustx]

Yes you have a point. I know you're right. I don't know wtf I'm doing. It's time for a reality check. How do you tell someone you don't want anything to do with them anymore?

Re: Joe?

[red_buckeye]

Like this: "I'm sorry about what happened to you, but we aren't friends. I'm with a man now who DOESN'T treat me like shit. Don't call me anymore."

If that's too blunt, just stop calling and e-mailing him back.

Re: Joe?

[xshadowsndustx]

I think I'll take option two; aka the pussy way out.