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[xxcrackedupxx]

So I seem to be going crazy every single day, because the thought of sam sleeping with someone else is literally driving me nuts. We're not together by any means, shes found someone else, and i sort of have too.. but we still call each other.. or atleast I call her. Whenever I do talk to her I'm pretty sure that she purposfully throws things into

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[h1pl1k3b4d455]

Sex is physical and has nothing to do with love.
Of course it bugs you, but you can't drive yourself crazy with it dude.

Look I slept around with other people before Josh did, and as soon as I found out he was sleeping with someone else I went through the same thing.. it sucks a lot- but only if you let it.

Don't put yourself through this, man. Let yourself be upset for a little bit, but then go have fun! Do something else, preoccupy your mind with other things. Eventually it won't be a big deal, and eventually you really won't care.
But firstly realize that sex doesn't always mean she's going to be in love with that person, or have an emotional connection like she did with you. It's never a replacement for what you guys had, it's just part of most relationships.. and it happens.

I hope you don't mind that I comment your LJ lol, I just check mine every few days and you've been posting c:

[h1pl1k3b4d455]

also I hope some of that helps. I just woke up and the brain isn't quite working correctly yet :/

[kristinerdland]

Joe had the same problem when I started sleeping with someone else. He said that it would never be as special as it was and ruined what we had. I don't know how that helps but if you want to know how it feels to be on the other end just ask me. It's extremely confusing and when I had sex with someone else it just made me realize how amazing I had it with Joe and not with the other guy. I promise it's not going to be that great for her lol. Both of you are going to be weird about it.

[xxcrackedupxx]

well thanks for the input =]. but i mean how much did you even like that person? the people that I was with between sam (1st one we were both drunk and she just wanted to get back at her b/f, the 2nd one was I was drunk as well and it obviously wasn't 'special' by any means). however, sam actually 'likes' this person so i wish you were right about that.. but I have a feeling its not going to be that way for her.