Drama -- What else do I write about anymore?

[xxlovetohate]

Bah. Well, last night was...interesting to say the very least. So Ian invited me and Jac to dinner at Denny's, but me and Jac left before everyone got there to go get Jamba Juice. By the time we got back, everyone was done eating and were paying for the check. Then Jac left and me Blakeley Ian Alison Andrea and Nicole went down to Golden Gardens

Comments

[ex_greenrain901]

Allow me to be honest here.

None of this bullshit even matters. She isnt worth your time at all. I think you should just completely forget the entire thing. First of all, it would be better off for you that way, not so much to worry about. And second, you are going to make Nicole mad if you just stop trying to fix things. Because that means that you dont give a damn about her. And you know she wants you to care and stuggle to fix it. And maybe she needs to see that you just dont give a shit, in order to realize that this whole stupid thing isnt worth it.

Dont even try to fix it. Just let it fall out. Trust me, you would be better off just dropping the whole thing. As hard as it may be.

High school (especially at Blanchet) is one huge drama fest. And it isnt worth your time and frustration.

Try it out. Let it go. You know the truth, and so do a lot of people. You have nothing to prove to anyone...especially her.

Anyway. Just my two cents. Love you lots and lots. :D

[nolookingback]

TRUE THAT! I agree Aly, just live life and be you and fuck what the rest of them have to say. In ten years none of this will matter.

[seideblume]

Yea. Drama sucks. And it's pointless. And it doesn't matter.

But friendship does.

I really don't know the details on all this, and maybe you don't want to be friends with her anymore. I don't know...but I do know that 99% of drama isn't worth losing friends over.

I've watched girls lose their friends over stuff like this, and it REALLY isn't worth it, and it ends up hurting them.

Just be careful, aiight?

Alyson, I care too much about you to want you to end up like them...you don't want to know how they're doing now.

[anonymous]

What do you want to accompish? If it is resolving the issue to keep a friendship then I suggest that you stop name calling, involving others,
and believing that fighting leads to solving problems. If you want to have others hang out with you then be aware that a lot of people do not want to deal with someone who solves conflict this way. My suggestion is simple. Take this drama offline - this is a public and its harder to recover from mistakes with others watching. Remember to treat everyone with respect in interactions - even if you are mad at them. If you made a mistake - apologize without rationalizng your behavior. If the other person hurt you tell her without attacking. I do not know you or anyone involved in this "drama" so I am not going to sign my name. Good Luck!

[honeybucketyea]

hey its nicole...from camp...wow your lifes confusing! and hopefully u and this other nicole chick make up or whatever! anyways call me and steph and we'll go do something