hmm... wow. i'm really sorry things are like they are. this probably isnt my place at all to even comment. i donno. i can totally see where you are coming from, i think there are totally some issues brought up because of alcohol that she needs to work on and take control of. i konw how i was/am with alcohol, and i know i was (and sometimes still do) drinking as much as her.. no, not as much, but as often, and i know that it catches up with you after some point, and you back away from it. i know she's capable of this, it's just a matter of whenever she's ready to live more of her life sober. i drink a lot. probably 5 nights a week. but when i drink it's different 95% of the time. i just relax and hang out or do whatever i normally do. it doesnt effect me at all in any way than makes me feel better sometimes, and sometimes it'll make me emotional. but i'm not a different person on it. i donno. just hang in there kiddo. or talk to her about it. i know that if you sit down with her (if you can find the time) and talk to
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I didn't know you felt this way. I had no idea. But sometimes it takes something like this for someone to realize how they're effecting others around them. I had no idea. I didn't know you also felt strongly about being able to talk to me, that I listen and you love that. That's something I always want you to be able to do, and I want to be sober and not stupid any time you ever need to talk..regardless. I'm sorry baby doll. I think that I'm bored or something in life right now, and my drinking has become a huge problem, because most of the time it feels more like a need rather than a want. I'm really glad that you posted this, and that I didn't miss it. I will definetly slow down on my drinking for you, if not stop soon. I'm so sorry baby. I love you and I always will, thank you for being open and honest. <3 xox.
i read that and can relate.. I never really like commenting on posts like that because it's not meant for me to really butt in but when I read that i just think of my popz.. he's the greatest, most kind person when he's sober.. but and idiot who forgets things in seconds, smells bad, is just so pathetic when he's drunk. sadly thats all the time nowadays. that's what he's good at.. that's all he can do. neither of my parents were good role models, drugs, alcohol, jail, blah blah.. but my popz was a role model in the sense that i found the person i never want to be. i thanked him for that before.. that was sad.
ps. he recently informed me that i have a 21 year old mentaly retarded brother that he never told me about until recently. when my mom was pregnant with me he cheated on her and poof* i have unknown brother.
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Wow oh wow..
I didn't know you felt this way. I had no idea. But sometimes it takes something like this for someone to realize how they're effecting others around them. I had no idea. I didn't know you also felt strongly about being able to talk to me, that I listen and you love that. That's something I always want you to be able to do, and I want to be sober and not stupid any time you ever need to talk..regardless. I'm sorry baby doll. I think that I'm bored or something in life right now, and my drinking has become a huge problem, because most of the time it feels more like a need rather than a want. I'm really glad that you posted this, and that I didn't miss it. I will definetly slow down on my drinking for you, if not stop soon. I'm so sorry baby. I love you and I always will, thank you for being open and honest. <3 xox.
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neither of my parents were good role models, drugs, alcohol, jail, blah blah.. but my popz was a role model in the sense that i found the person i never want to be. i thanked him for that before.. that was sad.
ps. he recently informed me that i have a 21 year old mentaly retarded brother that he never told me about until recently. when my mom was pregnant with me he cheated on her and poof* i have unknown brother.
once again, sorry for buttin' in. :p
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