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[y00ri]

I can't sleep. I am tired of planning this wedding. I wish I had lots of money so that I didn't have to do all the work. No, I wish that someone else had lots of money to pay for everything and do the planning too. I have no money. Weddings are expensive....so expensive and stressful that I'm not even looking forward to it

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[onlyemarie]

I have no idea what your mom and dad's legal or personal scenario is, but ... WTF! Tell her to hire a process server and fuck off of your WEDDING DAY. Talk about lack of boundaries.

Sorry to sound inappropriately angry, but that's awful!

Hang in there; you've got a lot on your plate!

[y00ri]

Ya, it sucks...I told her to get my brother to do it. She is poor and her english is not so good. She is not very resourceful. I feel bad for her and want to help...yet, at the same time I am quite annoyed by it all. Of course, she wouldn't have to ask me to do any of this if my Dad wasn't such a poop to her.

[onlyemarie]

Hey, we still have to get together for lunch...sorry, my life has been crazee of late. Sounds like your has, too!

[firenflower]

agreed, inappropriate lack of respect for your boundaries. that's not really anything that is your responsibility, much less on your big day.

process servers are cheap.

[y00ri]

You're right. It's totally not my responsibility...especially on my big day. I am angry at my Dad too for putting us all in this position.

I feel obligated to help. :) It sucks, it's annoying, but it has to get done. My Mom needs that money he owes her, real bad. At least my brother is willing to help out by giving him the papers.

I'll be sure to let my Dad know how pathetic all of this is...how he has made my wedding day become the only way my Mom can get a hold of him.

[wasabi_sparkle]

That sucks! I'm glad to hear that your brother is going to take care of it at least. Hang in there! It will all be over soon and hopefully you will have a fun weekend.

[woensdag]

Adding more stress to an already stressful day... I'm sorry! :( Glad your brother will help out though.

Everything is going to be wonderful and beautiful no matter what though, so don't stress too much about the details. Remember that even with all of the annoyances and expense, the main focus of the day should be celebrating your love for each other, and the beautiful baby your love brought into the world. Nothing else is important, and anyone who doesn't get that can answer to me!

If there's anything we can do to help... taking things up to Estes, whatever, just let me know!