Things Get More Complicated

Mar 04, 2004 01:51

umm....so yeah...remember all those entries about me complaining how Adam would never like me? Well...the impossible has finally happened...he told me he really misses me and doesnt wanna lose me and is jealous of Craig and wants to be with me, IN a relationship, asap. Boy, I feel like I'm in the twilight zone ( Read more... )

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anonymous March 4 2004, 16:42:40 UTC
hmm... tough one. i'd be careful not to lose either of them. not sure how you can juggle them both though. what do you think would happen if you told them both the honest truth? tell them you're interested in both, want to date both, but nothing serious?

-brian

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yesterdaysangel March 4 2004, 17:38:02 UTC
well see Adam knows everything cuz basically I can't lie to him...Craig on the other hand, wouldn't really go for that..although I don't think Adam would either. I'm not really sure what I want to do because in all honesty like I told Adam, I'm not ready for a serious relationship with ANYONE right now, no matter who it is. Thanks for the comment:) I'll email you soon and give you more updates (cuz I know they're sooo interesting hahah)

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soledad March 4 2004, 16:59:43 UTC
what did i tell you!!!! i knew he'd miss you.

i'm so pleased for you. but i know (from experience) how tough this must be.

i reckon you tell adam he has to make things up to you and that you wanna take it slow. maybe even suggest that you both still "see other people" so you can have a chance to get to know craig? (you'll know better than i do if that's a good option or not.)

and don't tell craig what's happened, not for a while anyway. he's new and he wouldn't get it.

at the end of the day, you're in charge here. remember you're nobody's property. and have fun!

(goddamn... this is so cool!) good luck, pet.

c xx

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yesterdaysangel March 4 2004, 17:42:04 UTC
Haha I think we are on the same wavelength or something cuz I've already done pretty much all you said. I told Adam how it made me feel that he thinks he can just waltz his way back into my life and expect me to forget about everything that's already happened between us because of him. I also told him that I thought it would be a good idea to wait for a while til we were actually "together" together...I had said 6 months because for one, Craig..and two, cuz I wanted to "date" other people and stuff and just have a little freedom before I settle down with somebody. (Adam and I have both already said that once we're together we'll probably be that way for a long time..) And yes Craig can't know this because he'd probably have a heart attack, and also the last thing I want to do is hurt him. I like him a lot too, and that's why this is so hard. Hope things with you are less complicated! haha..thanks for having faith in me when I didn't have any:)

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