today sucked a$$

[yore17]

 
Ever since Saturday morning, my world has been turned upside down.  Today was the first day back at work this week after taking some of my use-it-or-lose it "vacation".  Some vacation.  My boss was nice enough to count yesterday as a vacation day, too.  So in two weeks, instead of having a four-day weekend, I have a three-day weekend.

But today was

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[chigglet]

The hurt will pass in time. It might never completely go away, but it will lessen. I've had my heart broken, too

[yore17]

I don't think I nagged him. He never told me if I did. I even told him to tell me when I was being negative. I started noticing it in me, and didn't like it. But by the time I noticed, it had already pissed him off. He would get real quiet and not say anything, which prompted me to keep talking. I never got an "okay" or "I understand why you feel that way" or anything. And he agreed to tell me when I was being negative. But he never did. Seems we had a major communication problem. I wanted him to share with me, but he wouldn't. I felt left out. Not important. Like he wasn't listening to me. And after some of the reactions I got from him talking to him late Saturday night and again last night, I don't think he was

[chigglet]

I think he was just tired of fighting. Kinda just giving in.

I do agree that he shouldn't have taken time away from the two of you to deal with her. That was a no-no.

I totally get those annoying thoughts. Just as long as you stay in control, they can't hurt you. :)

[yore17]

I've done a lot of thinking. Nothing else to do when you can't sleep or make noise because there's a five-year old sleeping in the next room. I can see where he felt I was nagging him