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Okay, you might get mad at me for saying this, but it needs to be said. TJ is starting to feel guilty about everything that's happening to you. Moving, no door to your room, ect. ect. Now, if you do love him like you say you do, I really think you need to back off a bit. Cut contact. It will hurt like hell, but you doing this, telling him all this, isn't making him want to go back to you. It's just driving him further away and hurting him. He's hurting because you are. But he needs to be by himself. Try to give him a space, even if he comes to you. *hugs*
So how the hell am I supposed to pack my shit? Wait until he's not at the apartment? It's not like I'm calling him and telling him everything. He's here when I come to get stuff. When I see him, am I supposed to not say anything to him? Not supposed to cry when it hurts like fucking hell? Sorry, I can't do that. And I'm not about to disappear on my girls. I miss them like crazy, and I know they miss me. They don't leave my side from the moment I get in the door. And I can't move them right now. So what am I supposed to do? I went the whole weekend without contact with him, and the whole time my friend was telling me to shut up because I was missing my girls.
First off, your friend shouldn't have told you to shut-up, that was rude.
Maybe it would be best to wait til he's not at the apartment. Maybe that would be easier. I'm sorry you're missing your girls. I know it sucks. The above comment wasn't meant to be mean, or rude, or unsympathetic. I'm just conerned about friends, that's all.
I know you are, and I understand that. But our work schedules are basically the same right now. Most of the stuff in that apartment is mine. So that means I have a lot of packing to do. I've been going over right after I get off work because I'm usually off like an hour or so before he is. He caught me off-guard Monday because he got home "on-time" which hasn't happened in a long time. I figured I still had twenty minutes alone to cry to my heart's content.
But otherwise, I don't know when he's there and when he's not. He's not even planning on starting to move his things until the middle of the month. So like it or not, he's going to have to see me or go away for a while so I can move my stuff.
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Okay, you might get mad at me for saying this, but it needs to be said. TJ is starting to feel guilty about everything that's happening to you. Moving, no door to your room, ect. ect. Now, if you do love him like you say you do, I really think you need to back off a bit. Cut contact. It will hurt like hell, but you doing this, telling him all this, isn't making him want to go back to you. It's just driving him further away and hurting him. He's hurting because you are. But he needs to be by himself. Try to give him a space, even if he comes to you.
*hugs*
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Maybe it would be best to wait til he's not at the apartment. Maybe that would be easier. I'm sorry you're missing your girls. I know it sucks. The above comment wasn't meant to be mean, or rude, or unsympathetic. I'm just conerned about friends, that's all.
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But otherwise, I don't know when he's there and when he's not. He's not even planning on starting to move his things until the middle of the month. So like it or not, he's going to have to see me or go away for a while so I can move my stuff.
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