Wondering

Oct 08, 2008 12:41

Is it an insult to call a male pretty?

Edit later on: Neji! I honestly think you are pretty! I'm not insincere about it! It's not an insult!
Someone suggested you could change your look when it bothers you...

just wondering, nejii

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ethereal_genius October 8 2008, 11:06:04 UTC
I wouldn't say so. Pretty is just another adjective. I happen to know a boy whom I consider to be very pretty.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:12:58 UTC
Than it's not normal that males get angered with it?
I wonder who that might be...

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ethereal_genius October 8 2008, 11:21:11 UTC
Some do, others may not. It depends on their personality, I suppose.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:29:04 UTC
Which kind is more often?

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kin_slayer October 8 2008, 11:09:51 UTC
I would not think so, Lee-kun.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:16:21 UTC
But why is Neji not content witb being called that way?

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kin_slayer October 8 2008, 11:18:41 UTC
Perhaps he is self-conscious of his looks. Neji-kun is quite the proper one, after all. The Hyuuga are a reserved and proud family, and being called pretty may strike him as too... feminine. Or weak.

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kin_slayer October 8 2008, 11:25:18 UTC

bloodseal_soul October 8 2008, 11:13:28 UTC
I don't think so.

"Cute" seems to make guys get weird though.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:19:12 UTC
Well... cute would be really strange, I guess...

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kin_slayer October 8 2008, 11:23:21 UTC
I don't know, I find you and Neji-kun quite cute, Lee-kun.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:31:53 UTC
WHAT??!!

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codename_m October 8 2008, 11:15:56 UTC
Depends on the male.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:22:07 UTC
Which males would you call pretty?

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codename_m October 8 2008, 11:28:58 UTC
Those who have a feminine touch, perhaps, no matter how subtle.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 11:35:26 UTC
And it wouldn't be insulting to call them pretty?

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meteo_sniper October 8 2008, 15:02:05 UTC
Depends on person?

"Pretty" is often used to describe girls, so using this adjective to male may suggest they are feminine, hence the offense.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 17:38:09 UTC
Oh, but I am not implying that at all!
Do you think he is mad, Lockon-san?

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meteo_sniper October 8 2008, 17:43:22 UTC
You don't, but the word does.
Honestly, I have no idea.

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youthfullgreen October 8 2008, 17:45:27 UTC
But why do males see it as an offence?
I hope he isn't...

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