Comments | zevhonith: Gimme love

zevhonith

Gimme love

Oct 05, 2005 17:43

Okay, how bout another anonymous posting thingy. Isn't it time ( Read more... )

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anonymous October 6 2005, 01:05:09 UTC

I've become nearly completely asexual in the last few months. I have no desire at all to be with anyone, even my SO.

I wonder if I should be concerned about this, but I'm not.

Unscreen if you wish.

zevhonith October 6 2005, 01:38:21 UTC

I imagine you should be concerned if your SO is concerned.

anonymous October 7 2005, 19:26:54 UTC

SO isn't, it seems, and now I've gone and talked about this in a protected entry.

I still can and do have sex with my SO because of the love I feel for them, and I can still share pleasure with my partner.

I guess that if it becomes a problem, then I'll go see a doctor or something.

zevhonith October 7 2005, 19:27:53 UTC

That sounds like a wise decision. I think it's okay to feel asexual for a while from time to time. If it's not damaging your relationship, no need to feel badly about it.

I know it's not much of a confession, but... anonymous October 6 2005, 01:09:32 UTC

You should tell people what you want for your birthday. The thing I was going to get you turned out to be substantially more expensive than I anticipated.

Re: I know it's not much of a confession, but... zevhonith October 6 2005, 01:39:35 UTC

Well, I certainly don't want any expensive things. And what are people doing getting me presents, anyway? geez.

I'll try to think of some things, I suppose. I honestly haven't thought about it much. I don't really expect birthday presents much anymore.

Re: I know it's not much of a confession, but... zevhonith October 6 2005, 02:15:57 UTC

Here's how I seem to feel: I don't really want anything unless you feel like there's something I'd like. Pretty much all the things that would be on a list, I can just buy myself. I like presents that are given because they made someone think of me, not because it's time to buy me a present. If you can't think of anything for me and you really want to do something, make me a CD or give me a nice card or something.

Alternately, ask my sister. She's good with gift ideas, and knows me pretty damn well.

anonymous October 6 2005, 01:19:44 UTC

I confess.
I like this one guy, but he has a girlfriend. So I try not to think about it and find other ways to occupy my time.

Thing is, whenever I look at this guy, I feel like I'm cheating on someone.
No, I'm not dating anyone, but there was this one guy I've liked and he liked me - but I feel like I've ditched him for this new guy.

Perhaps I'm just crazy.

zevhonith October 6 2005, 01:42:21 UTC

So, there was a guy, and you liked each other, but for some reason never actually did anything about (right?) and now there's another guy, and he's utterly unattainable (UTTERLY, DAMMIT, don't be that person) and you feel bad about both of them?

Geez, way to kneecap yourself romantically.

You don't owe anybody anything just because you liked each other for a while. Winds shift; if you didn't (or he didn't) act at the time, well, opportunity missed. Maybe you'll come back around to each other eventually, but why sweat the additional guilt when you have, like, valid guilt to deal with. :P

anonymous October 6 2005, 02:14:26 UTC

He was a cowboy, mister, and he loved the land. He loved it so much he made a woman out of dirt and married her. But when he kissed her, she disintegrated. Later, at the funeral, when the preacher said, "Dust to dust," some people laughed, and the cowboy shot them. At his hanging, he told the others, "I'll be waiting for you in heaven--with a gun."

zevhonith October 6 2005, 02:16:50 UTC

It's terrible how a family can be ripped apart by something as simple as wild dogs.

anonymous October 6 2005, 03:09:10 UTC

I think people tend to forget that trees are living creatures. They're sort of like dogs. Huge, quiet, motionless dogs, with bark instead of fur.

anonymous October 6 2005, 03:29:50 UTC

There’s this young woman on my friends list. She posted almost every day, and then she posted about meeting this boy next door. After that, she seems to have forgotten about livejournal, and the only thing she writes about now, when she does think to post, is how happy she is.

Come find me. I promise you neither of us would ever give a damn about livejournal again.

zevhonith October 6 2005, 03:56:25 UTC

This is going on the list of most romantic things anyone's ever said to me.

whatall_is_nice August 22 2012, 18:22:44 UTC

That was probably secretly me.

Because it did happen. It just took you 5 years.

zevhonith August 22 2012, 18:26:27 UTC

Baby. It's so true. I am so happy. :)