You're both very friendly and enthusiastic and very reserved - it's easy to approach you and talk to you because you're smiling and cheerful and a good listener, but it seems like it would be very, very hard to get to know you after the initial conversation, and I think that shows.
Hmm. Yeah, that makes sense. It might also depend on who is trying to find out more about me, and why I think they're trying to do it.
I wonder if I should be a little less guarded? I'm definitely guarded when I think people want things from me that I don't think I can give them, but having like... an electron cloud of potential affability and helpfulness and then a dense nuclear center where I keep the rest of my feelings and thoughts (that someone else pries open at their peril) could be seen as a less-than-honest way of dealing with people (although it seems to work quite well for atoms.) I guess as long as I do share my inner self with some people, it's probably healthy and ethical enough?
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I wonder if I should be a little less guarded? I'm definitely guarded when I think people want things from me that I don't think I can give them, but having like... an electron cloud of potential affability and helpfulness and then a dense nuclear center where I keep the rest of my feelings and thoughts (that someone else pries open at their peril) could be seen as a less-than-honest way of dealing with people (although it seems to work quite well for atoms.) I guess as long as I do share my inner self with some people, it's probably healthy and ethical enough?
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