the hardest thing

[_fool]

what is the hardest thing you've ever done?

for me it was telling dark_knightly that i couldn't live with her. one moment, harder than 5 years of earning my black belt? totally. she asked me to "keep it off the internet" but i don't think she meant here; i think she meant twitter and facebook, where she still lives. here is a ghost town and since i still

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[marykae]

<3

I am proud of you

[ekkiikke]

for speaking your truth, no matter how hard it was. Yay for taking care of your needs!

[offloe]

You ask such good questions that I should answer more.

- Making the decision to move to Portland.

- Making the decision to transition.

- Transitioning.

I know we haven't seen each other in over a year, and my history is with her, not with you...however, she and I don't really talk anymore. And I don't think I blame you for your decision. If you ever want to talk about this, I am here.

[dawningday]

I'm proud of you for doing what you needed to do, knowing it would hurt and be difficult. You've passed that gate, and now you "only" need to keep moving, keep processing, keep allowing yourself to feel what you feel without identifying or trying to cling to the feelings. You have the capacity to pass through this and be transformed by it, to become a better partner better able to articulate what is wanted and needed and to stand by those boundaries. (hugs

[twilite_embrace]

K, so this is all going to come out pretty scattered, but that is my brain lately. But it's from the heart. And I hope it makes sense