I hope everyone had a nice weekend. It is absolutely gorgeous here today. High of 83, low of 57 and not a cloud in the sky. Have I mentioned that I love fall? ( my weekend )
I hate when I'm put in that position. Wondering if I should tell the person what's going on. Not cause I just like to start things. But because I hate to see someone nice waste precious years on someone who isn't worthy.
As much as I've wanted to tell someone...I never have. Cause when I told a friend about seeing her b/f out with someone she raised hell with him. He gave her some crazy story about it being a co-worker. She came back at me like I was just trying to break up their "happy home". That's what he had to make her think I guess.
You're right. My husband tells me things that his friends have asked him to keep secret because he knows that he can trust me. I've never given him any reason not to, and I know I'd break his trust if I told Aubrey.
I don't think Aubrey would tell Ed how she found out if I asked her not to, but she might get so mad at Ed that it slipped out accidentally. I am also thinking that maybe there's a way I can point Aubrey in the direction of what's going without actually telling her.
Lemme ask a stupid question: have u talked to your hubby about it? I mena A is your friend and that shouldnt happen to people and I'd have a hard time understanding why your hubby would want ot let that continue. On the other hand your right, there is that trust issue that his friends have wiht him and he has wiht u.
My husband is pretty much of the "it's none of our business" opinion. That said, he is pretty upset with Ed and has talked to him about it, but I highly doubt it'll make any difference in Ed's behavior.
Ouch you're stuck between a rock and a hard place...between doing the "right" thing or staying out of it. If it were you, what would you want to happen? Would you want to be told? If you were told how would you react? Most women know their husbands are cheating on them, even if they don't want to know and you said she's already suspicious, so I would think she already has a feeling that he is cheating on her. You have to do what's right for you to do. I wish you luck.
i cant believe this Ed guy is doing this while his wife is grieving. what a jerk. i think i wouldve cried too. either way, someone will end up hurt over the stupidity of this guy. at least u got it off ur chest a little! :)
So jealous of the warm weather! Actually I shouldn't complain. It isn't that bad here today but it was so windy yesterday, it felt like it was winter already!
Happy belated birthday!!
Now onto your dilemma. I say you talk to your husband about it first and see what he says. It is a difficult situation to be put in. I don't know what I would do myself. Sorry. :(
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I don't think Aubrey would tell Ed how she found out if I asked her not to, but she might get so mad at Ed that it slipped out accidentally. I am also thinking that maybe there's a way I can point Aubrey in the direction of what's going without actually telling her.
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Thanks :)
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i cant believe this Ed guy is doing this while his wife is grieving. what a jerk. i think i wouldve cried too. either way, someone will end up hurt over the stupidity of this guy. at least u got it off ur chest a little! :)
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Happy belated birthday!!
Now onto your dilemma. I say you talk to your husband about it first and see what he says. It is a difficult situation to be put in. I don't know what I would do myself. Sorry. :(
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I do love our weather in October, but I wish we got pretty fall leaves. Ours either stay green all year or go straight from green to brown.
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