Comments | and_then_i_nod: hi, this is my life. can i get a second opinion please?

and_then_i_nod

hi, this is my life. can i get a second opinion please?

Nov 22, 2005 09:48

i asked my mom what her reasoning was behind not letting my friend come, and this is her response ( Read more... )

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love anonymous November 22 2005, 15:34:37 UTC

you're beautiful.

Re: love and_then_i_nod November 23 2005, 22:39:15 UTC

and you're hott. that's why we are the perfect couple.

our chat the other day was very helpful. our love is stronger than ever, even though we're oceans apart. think about me when you're in the shower.

flyincat03 November 22 2005, 15:41:10 UTC

Wow, if you take off the first part about taking someone home for thanksgiving, I could send this letter to my mother too.

*hang in there*

flyincat03 November 22 2005, 15:42:00 UTC

Also, it pisses me off that she keeps refering to it as your "decision".

I wasn't aware that we got a choice.

and_then_i_nod November 23 2005, 22:40:55 UTC

i'm not going to copyright it, so feel free to use it as much as you'd like. perhaps i should start a book for people to go through when they have problems. generic letters. wow, i think i've found my calling.

if you happen to come down from the mountain and back into the valley at all this weekend, let me know and we can hang out. otherwise, good luck with your family as well.

dragonface November 22 2005, 15:46:52 UTC

sarah, I think this a really good response to your mom. She needs to know how bad she's making you feel and even if it doesn't change her behavior it should give her something to think about. Hang in there dykealicious

and_then_i_nod November 23 2005, 22:44:19 UTC

slap your imaginary sister on the ass for me :)

and thank you. i can't wait to see you again. i just want to cut you in little pieces like a steak and eat you up forever.

gnosis_osmosis November 22 2005, 18:55:10 UTC

Perfect. Right on the nose and really well written.

Take care. I'm thankful for people like you.

and_then_i_nod November 23 2005, 22:45:42 UTC

and i'm thankful you keep me posted on casey and eric :)

you need to post more often. i'm hanging on the edge of my seat to find out about rugby and bouncing back from boys and about all the concerts you're watching. hurry!

oxygeniswar November 22 2005, 22:33:14 UTC

wow. you write eloquently. and are direct. i felt extremely empowered just by reading your response to your mother. i'm sorry the holiday is turning out like this for you. even though there's only a .7% chance of you accepting my invitation, please know that you are more than welcome to hop a plane and do thanksgiving with me.

i lost my phone over the weekend and just got it back today. i think tomorrow would work for a phone date.

and_then_i_nod November 23 2005, 22:52:23 UTC

"everything has a purpose. a reason. sometimes we are disappointed things don't turn out how we'd like them, but how we'd like them isn't how it's always meant to be"

so, "turning out like this for [me],".....it has its' reason. and i'm ok with learning what that reason is later, even if i have little clue now.

and give me a call. i'll be up.