It's ALWAYS this hard before you find the right one. Look at me. I got into what I thought was a good relationship, wound up pregnant from it, and the guy has abandoned me and our son, but I now have a boyfriend I wouldnt leave for anything or anyone in the world. Ya hafta go through crap and lots of lonely nights before ya get the good things. And, I went from Feb 5 till July with total physical celibacy, and a sex drive that was raging from the overlod of hormones in my system from being preggers. You WILL survive, even if ya dont like the ride.
well you already know how my shit is going and its not fun at all. take it from me, it fuckin sucks and thats all there is to it. i wish i had something to tell you to help you out but i'm not the best one to be giving advice right now cause i'm an emotional wreak. i've had 6 months of lonely nights and no one to hold me except for when i was in pgh on leave when my lil brother didn't wanna sleep anywhere but with me! so that was the only lil bit of comfort that i got. i'm starting to ramble on about this so imma let u go
all bullshit and comforting aside.rojobonitaOctober 19 2004, 13:36:18 UTC
i'm sorry that i came off as heartless by telling you to "get over it" i know not too many people are as comfortable being by themselves as i am. but stephen there's nothing any body can say that will make you feel better. you're lonely and we can't fix it for you. we can't go give you a sympathy hug or a pity fuck. you can't fix it for yourself or you would have already. it's just the way the powers that be want it right now. that's why i have my whole "get over it " attitude. food for thought: serenity prayer: give me the strength to change the things i can, except the things i can't, and wisdom to know the difference. that's what i wish for you: serenity. and at this hour of loneliness, that's the best i could offer you.
however, if you NEED comforting...rojobonitaOctober 19 2004, 13:43:12 UTC
you are a great guy. you are a really good catch, i don't know why the girls down there don't see it. you're doing everything right and you better not change into a dog that almost all other men are. you have great qualities about you that i've never met in another man and don't ever expect to. (but if i do then definitely that is the man i'm marrying) loneliness... all my feelings of loneliness had always been due to separation from my family and a few friends and i know that's rough. that put me on a downward spiraling of despair but i'm also shy and withdrawn, very reserved and not much the one to make new friends. big difference from your personality. so if i can snap back, so you can you. i have faith in 'ya. and i love you even if i can't express it physically right now.
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It's ALWAYS this hard before you find the right one. Look at me. I got into what I thought was a good relationship, wound up pregnant from it, and the guy has abandoned me and our son, but I now have a boyfriend I wouldnt leave for anything or anyone in the world. Ya hafta go through crap and lots of lonely nights before ya get the good things. And, I went from Feb 5 till July with total physical celibacy, and a sex drive that was raging from the overlod of hormones in my system from being preggers. You WILL survive, even if ya dont like the ride.
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