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[bassplyinchick]

am i the only one whos terrified of failing?

sometimes it feels like i have a self-destructive personality.

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[notmrtalkative]

failing is my biggest fear.. now i just try to avoid it (by not trying).. if you don't see it coming, it'll rip you to shreds and there's no way out..

[bassplyinchick]

but not trying is just the same as failing. in the end, you're left with nothing. atleast with failing you have to knowledge that you tried...

[notmrtalkative]

exactly.. which is why its not something you should do.. i've been left with nothing.. it was so hard to see that i wasn't who i thought i was.. i didn't want to admit it to myself.. a failure is a lesson learned, not a defeat..

[bassplyinchick]

i really do appreciate your opinion on this and your knowledge. thank you very much.

[notmrtalkative]

i was just elaborating on the "self-destructive" personality part..