No, bb, it`s not trivial or pathetic at all. These are your problems; yeah, they`re not 'saving Africa' size, but still.
And I really don`t think you should worry about it. 13 years has nothing on new college friends so I really don`t think you`ll 'lose' her. You may not be able to see each other all day every day, but she`s not going to completely cut you off, I`m sure of it.
Your boy is your boy and you know that. Don`t worry about what your mom says--I can see that you guys love each other and I really don`t think he`ll cheat on you. It`ll get easier; it`s hard rn bc change is scary but dw too much, okay? ily.
thanks, hon :) I know, I'm just so scared about it all and I don't know what to do. Boy and I were on the phone with her just yesterday and she convinced him drive us to visit next week. next month i will see Blink with her, and then she is my Fall Ball buddy, and I'm sure there will be more from there... but i manage to get in arguments with myself about it and end up sad. also, the part about Boy: I've had that same melt down in front of him, twice now :( making him feel so bad and spend the next several hours trying to convince me its alright. at this point i think he wouldn't be able to just to be stubborn because i predicted it XD
I live in one of those all the time--I call it cycling or cycles but basically I just get really low and feel like shit. But sometimes just moving to another room or talking to your mom about nothing really helps bc it gets your mind distracted enough to get out of the cycle.
Comments 4
And I really don`t think you should worry about it. 13 years has nothing on new college friends so I really don`t think you`ll 'lose' her. You may not be able to see each other all day every day, but she`s not going to completely cut you off, I`m sure of it.
Your boy is your boy and you know that. Don`t worry about what your mom says--I can see that you guys love each other and I really don`t think he`ll cheat on you. It`ll get easier; it`s hard rn bc change is scary but dw too much, okay? ily.
Reply
I know, I'm just so scared about it all and I don't know what to do. Boy and I were on the phone with her just yesterday and she convinced him drive us to visit next week. next month i will see Blink with her, and then she is my Fall Ball buddy, and I'm sure there will be more from there... but i manage to get in arguments with myself about it and end up sad.
also, the part about Boy: I've had that same melt down in front of him, twice now :( making him feel so bad and spend the next several hours trying to convince me its alright. at this point i think he wouldn't be able to just to be stubborn because i predicted it XD
Reply
Reply
Reply
Leave a comment