Top or bottom? That's the almighty question of the gay community, as if there aren't enough obstacles in the gay dating world. Although the question may bare some relevance in the bedroom, it is not something a guy wants to hear on the first date. In some cases, this particular discussion will arise even before the first date; nothing lost, nothing ( Read more... )

What is sex? Why do we as human beings have such a strong hunger for it? What about it is so desirable ( Read more... )

I'M BACK!!

There's only one thing better than being single: being in a relationship, and then being single again. After coming out of a relationship, you feel a sense of freedom. You feel as though you've been tied down forever, and now you can finally do anything you want. There's no shame in being single, especially if you have a healthy ( Read more... )

Having control tends to make a person feel powerful. If I am able to have complete control over a situation that I've invested myself, I will be content and I'll feel powerful. Control is not my only source of power; I have a lot of inner strength that feeds my ability to function and effects the amount of power that I posess. The power that I have ( Read more... )

What if you were to fall in love with someone that lived on the other side of the globe? They're so far, but when you're speaking to them it feels like they're right next to you. How do you justify a relationship that technically doesn't even exist? I believe that love holds no boundaries and that people should act on instinct when dealing with ( Read more... )

 I just today realized that I have been training myself to live by someone else's standards. I have been trying my best to live up to something that someone from the past had wished I could be. I can't say that it's a bad thing, because I'm a fantastic person and I wouldn't change a thing about myself. But I have to realize that I can't keep doing ( Read more... )

There are three kinds of relationships. You have the mediocre/temporary relationship that only lasts about two weeks. Then there's the good relationships that seem like they'll last forever, but they somehow don't. Finally, there is the horrible relationships that turn out to be a big mistake. Let's just say you'll regret that one later. You want ( Read more... )

As humans, our sense for fear is very strong. However, unlike many animals, we tend to get curious and move in the direction of that fear. It's almost as if we're not afraid of fear, until it reaches a point when we're no longer curious. Why would anyone want to put themselves in danger, or face something we're afraid of, just out of curiosity? Is ( Read more... )

In my last entry, my mood was "nauseated." This was not because I was feeling ill, but because I saw the news. The particular topic I'm speaking of is the topic of Heath Ledgers death. It was broad-casted all over the news, all down to him leaving his SoHo apartment in a body bag. As if it weren't horrible enough that the news was there---it doesn' ( Read more... )

I don't answer the "What Do You Have To Say?" questions very often, I find them to be somewhat boring. However, this one caught my eye for some reason. The question was "What Do You Want To Be When You Grow Up?", I'm going to answer it as an entry and not an essay ( Read more... )