I've seen this "Dos and Dont's of a Good Ally" on my friends list a few times; it comes from karynthia (ETA: This is the wrong username but I can't find the original post to correct!), and while I do not know this person, there is a lot about the post that I agree with. There is also a some stuff in the that I disagree with.

So, here's my take: ( Dos and Don'ts of a Good Everyone )