1980, I'm 4 years old: John Lennon shot. Mother says he was a fag, then defines the term crudely in response to my query.
~1983, 7 years old: first memorable incidents of mother's nonspecifically directed venomous anti-gay screeds and fag jokes.
~1987, 11 years old: first inkling my perception of girls was nonstandard. At a synagogue function of
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