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The Fallacy of Fairness
Many people talk about ways to maintain harmony and balance in their various relationships, not just Poly people. You can go far more broadly into life in general and discuss life/work balance, dietary balance, and untold other variations on the theme. But as I am wont to do, I am focusing on the concept within relationships, and even more ( Read more... ) -
What is the what?
Hey there. How's things ( Read more... ) -
So, someone called you a Unicorn Hunter?
This article is a long, technical discussion of what being a "Unicorn Hunter" means, what's wrong with it, and how people in such a situation can try to avoid the negative stereotypes associated with such behavior and get the things that they are ultimately looking for. It is written in a conversational style so as to make it as "approachable" as ( Read more... ) -
My first health update
Had another surprise this week. Really not sure what all this means. Still okay with it ( Read more... ) -
Abandonment
I am putting this on here because I'm ready to write it, I want to store it, and I'm not opposed to sharing it. This is where I write. This is not a piece full of happy happy joy joy, so please skip it unless you want to dive into a big ball of emotional processing. I have no expectations that anyone but myself will read this, that's not why it' ( Read more... ) -
Posting from Redmond, WA
So, had a surprise on Friday. Weighed in at 194 ( Read more... ) -
Level up
September 12th & 13th. -
Scorn Decay
Scorn Decay is the idea that when someone does something monumentally offensive and/or stupid, an act truly worthy of contempt and derision, that it generates two things that can be measured in duration. The first product of such an event is Humor (Hu) which is measured in "Laugh Life" (LL), and the second is Outrage (Ou) which is measured in “ ( Read more... )
